Raineydays

I'd like to meet:

Rainey
Days

As far as the kind of guys I go for, I hate the macho guy type--too arrogant and bullheaded for me. I'm not into those flashy clubby guys either, so what if you can get us in VIP--I thought the evolution of society meant moving AWAY from a caste system, not creating artificial and superficial ones??? Show me how you're educating people about the racism Americans have endured, that would impress me! I'm not into guys that showoff their jobs or money, that only works on gold-diggers, plus it's like a girl showing off her boobs (kinda like "I'll show you my plastic if you show me yours" type thing). I also don't like guys who automatically think they're smarter than girls just because they're conditioned from the status quo of overwhelming male dominance in our world, ie, no patronizing or condescending guys, please leave your ego's at the door! Oh and no stupid boys either, if you have the IQ of wood, make like a tree and leave. I'm not into wussy guys. By wussy, I mean.... I'm half-japanese and if you can't hold your own and think the food I eat is gross or weird, go find some other girl because I don't need guys like that. I like a guy with a sense of adventure and who loves to try new things, I also love walks on the beach with that special someone. I want a guy who's loyal, who will treat me like a gentleman should. My ex bf was the successful, all-American physician, JFK Jr.- lookin type. Okay, I'm through with that type, they're nice to look at and showoff to your girls but don't make the best choice for soulmates/Lifemates. I've learned my lesson...the hotter the guy is, the more opportunity he has to cheat on you and no matter what, it's just too much for most guys to resist, ie: Donald Trump, Kobe Bryant, Frank Gifford, Hugh Grant, etc.. all. These *lucky* guys were all married to beautiful, intelligent, successful women and they all cheated on them!Watch "Newlyweds" on MTV and see how insecure Jessica Simpson acts all the time being married to Nick Lachey! I'm not gonna be stupid and naive and say it would never happen to me, so I'm not taking any chances cuz I only wanna be married one time in my life. Maybe, I'm just too nice and trusting of a girl but why should we change who we are? My dad always taught me that "the world is what you make of it" and I'm going to stick to my values and whatever guy who can't appreciate that it's his loss. God, I just want a decent man with a cute, charming, warm, humble, & funny personality (sense of humor is important), and likes kids (I'm ready to get married and start a family). .............

" MY RENAISSANCE MAN.......... My Renaissance Man would be someone who is well-rounded and who has an eclectic combination of the best traits of all the cultures and races of humankind. If I could create my perfect guy, he'd be humble & wise like Master Yuen Wo-Ping, funny like Steve Martin, goofy & playful like Jackie Chan, deep & spiritual like Gandhi, smart like Albert Einstein, confident like Will Smith, sexy like Antonio Banderas, and have the looks of Keanu Reeves or Russell Wong. ^_- yummmmmie!! ............. Oh yea, I have this thing for BEAUTY MARKS, I loooove'em!!! On both guys and girls! The perfect spot for him to have one (1) would be just above the left part of his lips or if not, then (2) around the corner of his left eye. I don't know why I like them, it's a mystery to me. When I was little I used to use black pens and draw them on my face and try them in different positions...LOL, my parents would always wonder why their little girl was always drawing on her face! ......

Change:

I think it's as simple as that. We all would like to blame governments, institutions, doctrines, and faiths for everything that ails the world today. It's convenient to do so and it doesn't point fingers at anyone. It also doesn't change anything. Because behind these intangible forces of human nature are humans. But the majority of humans, once they've reached that certain age have left the scope of change. Our energies would be better spent if we focused on the human children. Human children learn how to be human adults through behavioral emulation. They segregate themselves into roles based upon example. More often than not, these examples are based on our bodies, whether we are fat or thin, Asian or Latin, tall or short...why is Tiger Woods associated more w/African Americans? It's because he looks more Black than Asian even though he's 50/50. Do you see it now? To have a perfect world, we need idealist adult humans, but where do we find perfectly ideal adult humans? I don't know, I'm not even sure if many of them exist. How will The Perfect World ever develop if there aren't any or only a few ideal humans to emulate? Humans whose thoughts and behaviors aren't defiled by the shells they're housed in.
Give children security.

That is how I plan to raise my children. Give them the security to embrace change and try new things. Change is a scary thing. That is the one aspect of human existence that transcends gender, age, race, religion, culture, and time. Yes, time. Too often, we live only in the now and forget about the past...not slavery and the past of our country, I'm talking about the past of humanity. When considering issues such as abortion, racism, or homosexuality...how many of us have thought, "hmmm, how would an ancient Macedonian feel about that?" Any human ideal that is *truly* ideal should hold its truth 1,000 years ago, as well as today, and 1,000 years well into the future...don't you think? I do. That's why I want to give my children security, because I'm not an ideal human and I don't want them to fear changing from the way they have been brought up and raised if they are exposed to a new and better way to think.
And that is why the Republican Party sucks. They do not embrace change. (and because they favor the wealthy, yada yada...) I hope you packed your sunblock because we're going to be living in hell for the next four years.
And that is also why haters should STFU when they criticize White people who "act Black" or White people who "act Asian" or Hispanics who "act White" or...well, you get the point. These people have overcome the behaviorally-based roles that society has segregated upon us because of the type of shell our minds and souls are contained in. Instead of hating them, you should hope to achieve the same someday. To be a Black that "acts White?" No.... To have a capacity of thought that extends beyond your shell.


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