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Ernie &copy

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About Me


Hey hey! Name's Matthew but all my mates call me Ernie, which I think I'd prefer you call me as I've been called by that nickname for about 7 years now, lol.
Well, I'm a pretty nice guy I woulda said, I love my friends and family and I enjoy spending time with both. I'm usually a pretty serious guy, but I do like to joke and mess around, and when I'm drunk its a completely different story!
I love people who are honest and sincere, funny and talkative, with a serious side too as I love a good debate! Although, I hate narrow-minded people, liars and hypocrites, I dont take shit and I cant back down from aggression, whether thats a bad thing or not I cant decide lol. But I'm nice if you're nice hahaha.
I like to think of myself as a wise person, I'm able to see things from different perspectives and as such it often stops me arguing with people as I can already see things their way lol. I'm a good listener, I can listen to people's rants forever, and I love to give advice and end it with a big hug!. I am extremely brutally honest when it comes to giving advice or helping someone, I dont see the point in lying to make someone feel better when you can be honest, even if it hurts.
I'm really really paranoid and obssessive about stuff, but I keep all my wacko theories and obssessions to myself and dont bore or freak out anyone else with them, lol.
My thoughts on:
Love
Complex subject, I'll try to be brief, hehehe, basically, I'm not one of those "love at first sight" believers, to me thats just bullcrap, there's only lust at first sight, anyone who disagrees is just ashamed of their own sexuality. I do believe in such a thing as love, but not exactly the storybook kind, I believe love can bloom anywhere at any time, but to love someone and realise it takes time, trust and respect must be built first.
Religion
Anyone who knows me personally will know this, but for the uninitiated, here's the scoop on my thoughts. Monotheistic/polytheistic religions involving worship of or relating to "supreme/perfect beings" are bullcrap, the very notion of an all-loving/all-powerful/all-knowing being makes me sick to my stomach, realising there are people in this world who can believe such a thing are ignorant, naive and foolish. Religion serves to castrate the human race and make us deny our own natural instincts and needs, and turn us into obedient servants of a false ideal. End of.
What must be the greatest, and my most favourite, quote of all time by Richard Dawkins on the nature of the Old Testament god:
"jealous and pround of it; a petty, unjust, unforgiving control-freak; a vindictive, blood-thirsty ethnic-cleanser; a misogynistic, homophobic, racist, infanticidal, genocidal, filicidal, pestilential, megalomaniacal, sadomasochistic, capriciously malevolent bully".
Aesthetics Of Hate

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Advanced Global Personality Test Results
Extraversion |||||||||||||||||| 80%
Stability |||||||||| 36%
Orderliness |||||||||||| 43%
Accommodation |||||||||| 36%
Interdependence |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Intellectual |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Mystical |||||||||||||||| 63%
Artistic |||||| 30%
Religious || 10%
Hedonism |||||||||| 36%
Materialism || 10%
Narcissism |||||||||| 36%
Adventurousness |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Work ethic |||||| 23%
Self absorbed |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Conflict seeking |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Need to dominate |||||||||||||||| 63%
Romantic |||||| 30%
Avoidant |||||| 30%
Anti-authority |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Wealth || 10%
Dependency |||||| 23%
Change averse |||||||||||||||| 63%
Cautiousness |||||||||| 36%
Individuality |||||| 23%
Sexuality |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Peter pan complex |||||||||||||||| 63%
Physical security |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Physical Fitness |||||||||||||||||||| 84%
Histrionic |||||||||||| 50%
Paranoia |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Vanity |||||||||||||||| 63%
Hypersensitivity |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Female cliche |||||||||| 36% Take Free Advanced Global Personality Test
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You Are Internal - Skeptic - Powerful
You feel your life is controlled internally.
If you want something, you make it happen.
You don't wait around for things to go your way.
You value your independence and don't like others to have control.
You are a total skeptic when it comes to luck.
You believe that people use luck as a crutch to avoid responsibility.
You control your own destiny. The universe has nothing to do with it.
You believe everything can be explained - and you tend to over analyze situations.
When it comes to who's in charge, it's you.
Life is a kingdom, and you're the grand ruler.
You don't care much about what others think.
But they better care what you think! The Three Dimension Luck and Power Test
Your Body Image is 8% Unhealthy, 92% Healthy
You have a great body image. You know that no one looks perfect, and you're happy the way you are.
Also, you don't judge other people on their looks... and it helps them feel better about their own bodies! How's Your Body Image?
You are an Atheist
When it comes to religion, you're a non-believer (simple as that).
You prefer to think about what's known and proven.
You don't need religion to solve life's problems.
Instead, you tend to work things out with logic and philosophy. What's Your Religious Philosophy?lamb of god - now you got something to die for

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You Communicate With Your Body
This isn't as bad as it sounds, it just means that you're a "touchy-feely" person.
You need a lot of affection in your life. And for you, this means both giving and receiving little touches.
Warm hearted, you bond with people easily. In fact, you often feel a little sad when you're not in the company of others.
A little moody, you tend to be controlled by your emotions. But a big hug always comforts you! How Do You Communicate?LOG-As The Palaces Burn

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I'd like to meet:

Friendly, compassionate, spiritual, opinionated, happy people, who like to get drunk, lol

My Blog

Integrity Matters

"£17, mate", well fuck, why didn't he just stab me in the face and leave me bleed to death in the back of the taxi, I may have preferred that, would've definitely been less painful than paying £17 jus...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Oct 2007 14:24:00 GMT

In Defense of my Disbelief

Atheism.   I love being an atheist, oh yeah, it gives me a warm feeling inside. I've been a strong atheist for the past 3 years now, and I know what you're thinking; you think it's been longer...
Posted by on Thu, 07 Jun 2007 11:00:00 GMT

Priority Fuck

People are fucked upThat's right, that's what i said, YOU are fucked up, I am fucked up, everyone you know and love, is fucked up.It gets to me sometimes, how people do the wrong thing all the time, ...
Posted by on Mon, 07 May 2007 11:14:00 GMT

This is it, this is the beginning

    Well, here we are my friends, this will be the beginning, THIS is where you will find no lies, no bullshit; only findings, musings, philosophies, feelings, emotions, ramblings, rant...
Posted by on Tue, 01 May 2007 12:37:00 GMT

meh

Uch, has proved quite difficult, but i've got up all the basics now i think for my profile, just fine tuning to be done now
Posted by on Thu, 27 Jul 2006 09:24:00 GMT