Let Me Tell You About Who I AM:
I'm gonna start from the obvious, meaning the picture to the left. That's my son, Savaughn. He's my first child, whom I love with everything within me. He was such an unplanned blessing. He makes me smile each time I look at him. Everyday, he reminds me that I have a purpose in life. Being a mother is a gift designed to bring out in a woman, the inner strength that God placed in us to raise up an innocent child to his fullest potential in a not so innocent world. It is truly a challenge, and I fully understand why God planned for children to be born into married families. It takes more than just one person to fully raise a child. Children need an entire family. And because I have a son, it's very important that I help show him the way, with God's guiding hand, in being a responsible, Black male, growing up in a society that treats him as a statistic waiting to happen. I graciously accept this role, and I pay my utmost respects to all the single mothers before me who raised their children and go to school, work, and whatever else without any help from deadbeat dads. It is truly a "badge of honor to be a Baby Momma." Now, to answer that burning question in your mind, NO, his dad and I are not together. Don't believe that we ever will be. To view more on why I feel that way you can check the blog that I wrote entitled: "To my B.D. With Love." Now, moving on... I'm a God fearing, single, intelligent, determined young woman with lots of potential, and my goal for 2007 is to not look good just to the eye, but to look good on paper as well. Meaning, I know that I'm attractive, and that I have a good heart towards people, but my current financial state is in need of an upgrade--you feel me? I love being a hairstylist, it's a gift that I was blessed with. But I have so many other gifts inside of me, that I think it's time to possibly explore those. So, I've got a few things in the works, and I'm on the move towards a bigger and brighter new year for me and my son. Just stay tuned! And lastly, YES I AM SO SINGLE....is it by choice or circumstance?? Kinda 50/50 at times. At this age(currently 26) I figure that marriage would be nice, but seeing that I have no prospects, it's not looking so good for me. Which saddens me. Trust, I am a good chick, would make someone a great girlfriend, but I gotta get out of the whole "Number 2" syndrome. I used to have this catchphrase: "I'M THE ONE YOUR MOTHER WOULD LOVE, BUT YOUR GIRL WOULD HATE." I've said it so much, that it seems to have shaped my relationship life. Most males look at me, are attracted and "forget" that they have a girl, fiancee, wife, ect... Back in the day, I thought it was cute, now, not so much. Be respectful guys, please! I'm too grown to be the chick on the side, and too smart to not be number one on the list. I'm hoping that the right one for me is out there, but if he doesn't come around to notice the diamond potential that I posess, I guess I'll be a monogomous dater, lol..
I hope this gives you a lil glimpse of who you've just stumbled across. Please enjoy the rest of My Space.
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Your Birth Month is May
Unique and creative, you seek your own path in life.
You love change and are able to adapt to any situation.
Your soul reflects: Sweetness, joy, and a complete life.
Your gemstone: Emerald
Your flower: Lily of the Valley
Your colors: Yellow, red, and green
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