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Ben

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About Me

I like variety in life. I have no problem changing direction to challenge myself; whether it is new people, places or experiences, I try to stay diverse with what I'm doing.

As I've been getting older I have become less and less satisfied with where I am at -- I strive to move forward and try to surround myself with people who have this same drive and mentality. Yeah it's a bit cliche, but I believe in living every day as if it were your last, with a modicum of longer term planning thrown in to be sure they get better and not worse.

Work hard to play hard...Ask any of my close friends -- you will be hard pressed to find anyone who plays it harder than me and I'm only just getting started =)

As much as I like to have an alcohol-filled night out at a good club with good music or a weekend at the race track, I'm just as content with your average get-together with close friends or a quiet night cooking and watching a movie.

Though I've recently decided to call the glitzy shores of South Beach in Miami my home, I'm still a simple honest guy from a suburban Florida town who happens to have a passion for living.

Me at the Sebring International Raceway:

My Interests

travel, adventuring, house music, racing my car, a night out at a nice restuarant, an empty beach at night, interesting and intelligent people, fishing, firearms, life

I'd like to meet:

Open-minded, adventuresome people who won't let fear, doubt or inexperience get in their way of living life to its fullest.

I do try to be outgoing and am happy to meet most anyone, though I choose my close friends very carefully.



Music:

I can find musical merit in almost any genre, though my personal tastes lie in house, trance, punk, ska, drum and bass, jungle, hip hop and classic rock. Some name dropping - Punk: Dead Kennedys, Bad Religion, NOFX, No use for a Name, Anti-Flag, Bouncing souls. Electronic: Honeyroot, Prodigy, Infusion, Moshic, Hernan Catenao, Danny Howells, Sasha, Digweed, Jimmy Van M, Union Jack, Trentemoller, Unkle, Gorillaz. Hiphop: Timbaland, Scott Storch, Dre, Nelly Furtado, Manny Fresh, Missy Elliot. Rock/Classic Rock/80s/: The Doors, Nirvana, Nine Inch Nails, Radiohead, CCR, The Beach Boys, Blondie, Pat Benetar, Real Life. Other stuff - amazing guitar players... Paco De Lucia (Flamenco), Yngwie Malmsteen (electric)

Movies:

Requiem for a Dream, Vanilla Sky, Sunshine, PI, Donnie Darko, Solaris, Monty Python stuff, The Professional, Event Horizon, Full Metal Jacket, American Me, Pulp Fiction, Heavy Metal, Apocalypse Now, Aliens, Terminator 2, Predator, Memento, The Matrix, V for Vendetta, The Usual Suspects, Cube, Borat, Pitch Black, Snatch, Space Odyssey 2001

Television:

I only watch LOST. No time for anything else. Shows I liked in the past: Sopranos, Da Ali G show, Airwolf, South Park, Curb your Enthusiasm, VH1, Discovery and History Channel.

Books:

NAM, One flew over the Cuckoos Nest, The Anarchists Cook Book, Jurassic Park, The Sandman, the Killer Angels, 1984

Heroes:

I don't have any specific heroes. In a general sense, I highly respect anyone who puts their life on the line to do their job -- this first includes the men and women on the front lines in our military along with our local police and fire fighters.

My Blog

new JOB!!

So, next Monday (September 1st) I start a new job. I had an opportunity come my way I could not refuse that was better in almost every aspect and will be working in a great company with an outsta...
Posted by Ben on Fri, 31 Aug 2007 04:49:00 PST

So I bought my first house. Pics :)

So I bought my first house a few months ago... wanted to wait until I had everything 'finished' before I posted pics, but figured I would get something up for now. 3 bed / 2 bath / 2 garage. Great ne...
Posted by Ben on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 11:13:00 PST

Great time tracking the M3 at Sebring this past weekend

Had a great time lapping my M3 at Sebring on Saturday. Got my goal of a 2:3x lap time with a 2:39 :) Here we go : ...
Posted by Ben on Mon, 16 Apr 2007 07:02:00 PST

MYSPACE PROFILE B*TCHES!

I've never been one to join in on the seemingly hip and cool internet fads. Blogging? Who cares. Most people live pretty boring and uneventful lives and I never cared too much to read (or write) abou...
Posted by Ben on Fri, 08 Dec 2006 08:52:00 PST