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About Me

I never know what to put or how to start these 'About Me' things. I guess I don't think about myself all that much, lol. I'm a 6'1", blonde haired, blue eyed, polyamorous, formerly enlisted Marine, computer geek. I'm happily married, have been for 14 years, we're polyamorous, and currently living in an avowed MFM triad (almost 2 years now). We are looking for another woman to balance things, but we aren't in a hurry. She has to be a friend first.

I should mention that, when I write things, I tend to be long winded, so stuff in here, or on the blog, will likely end up being longer than I intend pretty much every time.....

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Hot babes, lol.

Seriously, anyone that isn't afraid of someone who switches from deep technological or philosophical discussion to basic maleness to stupid jokes in the course of a conversation.

If you want me to add you as a friend, you've gotta send a message along with the request. We need to have at least a little conversation before I add you as a friend, it's only fair. (It's the one that says 'Contact' in my custom contact table.)

My Blog

Season

Now that it is identified as a pattern that has been in my life for a very long time, I don't feel quite so bad about my seasonal persona... but the changes effecting others still makes me feel ...
Posted by on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 14:21:00 GMT

Happy Birthday to Me

For my birthday this year, I bought myself a present. I saw it while browsing and typing things in on a whim, and I decided that it should be mine.alderin.comYes, it is mine. I'm starting ...
Posted by on Tue, 04 Mar 2008 00:31:00 GMT

Scary

It is a scary prospect, after knowing such togetherness, the thought of being alone. I know the possibilities are remote, but the fear remains. K has a herniated disk, and is going to get ...
Posted by on Sat, 09 Feb 2008 22:19:00 GMT

Semi-profound thought

It is frustrating to know that there is so much out there that I can do... that I can't do.There aren't enough: hours in the day, dollars in the account, gas in the tank, people who will pay for it, o...
Posted by on Thu, 31 Jan 2008 08:44:00 GMT

Stuff Sucks

School sucks, because they won't grade me on my gained knowledge and ability, they basically grade me on my inability to modify my own work schedule.Work sucks, because they keep modifying my schedule...
Posted by on Tue, 15 Jan 2008 00:19:00 GMT

At least...

It's the trying to count my blessings that is still the tough part of the downswings in mood I have. Those "At least you aren't starving", things...At least I'm not for want of food, even...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Jan 2008 22:02:00 GMT

Argh.

For me, since I've been trying hard to make sure that the budget can work, I limited myself to the "allowance" allotment I set up for xmas gifts. I decided basically for a lump sum gift for the whole...
Posted by on Wed, 26 Dec 2007 22:26:00 GMT

Short blog

Missed another Sunday, sorry.A lot has happened, I've signed up and started classes at University of Phoenix online, which is a big step for me. I made a plan for my kwanzahanamas gift for the family...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Dec 2007 10:20:00 GMT

This will be a short one

...because I just blogged. But this was brought to my attention recently, and the category I file this under is "Things I would have explained had I known there was a need to explain them."The Nerd H...
Posted by on Sat, 24 Nov 2007 00:28:00 GMT

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hooray for Thanksgiving!The ham was great, but the turkey this year, the turkey was mouth-wateringly awesome, juicy and flavory and ... awesome. I'm gonna have to go raid the leftovers after posting ...
Posted by on Thu, 22 Nov 2007 23:31:00 GMT