Hello dears,
I felt that my Personal Profile did not give much information about myself, so I have decided to update it.
As you know, I am now an Amateur Agony Auntie, living in London. Originally, I am a Manchester Girl. From the nice part, naturally. My father was in Local Government, and my mother was a housewife. I, an only child, went to a private, all girls’ school for most of my childhood. Being an only child is what drove me to have having a large family.
I went to University in London, studying to become a Journalist. That was when I met Barry. He was studying for his PhD in Physics. It was love at first sight. After University, I found myself a job working for a small Newspaper. Barry got a fantastic job, earning 3 times as much as me! Soon after, I fell pregnant and gave up my career for my child. Over coming years, I squeezed out two more beautiful children. I didn’t mind giving up my job to have children. You might think that 3 young children would be a right handful, but with Barry’s wage, we could afford to employ a full-time nanny, clearer and chef. In actual fact, I spent most of my time out with my girlfriends.
Then everything changed. Barry got offered a job in America. The money was fantastic and we both agreed that it would be a good idea for him to take it, and for us to find a permanent home there.
Well, I found us a home out there and furnished it. Made sure all the children were happy in school, and did everything that needed to be done. Quite quickly, I would find myself redundant. I did not have any friends out there. Nobody to go for coffee with. Nobody to even talk to during the daytime. I stuck at it for the love of my husband and children. But deep, deep down, I was longing to go home. Soon after, I stared seeing less and less of Barry. It turned out that he’d fallen in love with someone else. A man from his new job. I was devastated. But at the same time, I understood the pain of repressed sexuality. I also loved Barry, so I let him go. I still love Barry, and I believe he still loves me, deep down.
I finally decided that I would move back to England, back to London, while I was still young enough to ‘start again’ as such. The children decided that they wanted to stay in America. They had found all these new friends, and all these new clubs that they go to after school. Chess Club, Spelling Club, Homework Club. It was hard leaving them behind but I know what they are happy. And they know what there is always a bed at mummy’s house. And, of course, I talk to them all the time on the telephone.
Tom, Barry’s new love from work now lives in the home that I furnished and they all seem very happy. Tom is a pleasant boy, I can see what Barry sees in him! We recently divorced. I received half of our savings, which is looking after me quite comfortably, and could easily do so for the rest of my live. However, when I got home, most of my old friends had moved away or moved on. I found myself more alone than ever before. So, I decided to take the bull by the horns, find some new company, which is taking longer than it used to when I was younger, but is happening, slowly but surely. As well as this, I have discovered that wonders of the Internet and I am now trying my hand at being an Agony Auntie.
so, that’s pretty much my life story as of now. Keep up to date with what is going on in my live in my Blog.
and finally, please feel free to contact me via MySpace with any problems you might have, and I will try to help you the best I can.
Finally, my MSN Messenger address is [email protected] . Please feel free to add me as a Contact me, I always enjoy meeting new people.
Take care, Agony Auntie Tanzy xx
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