Jeffreys38 profile picture

Jeffreys38

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

The most important aspect of my life - and the first thing in my life - above all else - are my three incredible kids. I am not just a “proud parent,” I am an ECSTATIC one. I am so proud of what they have become and what they are becoming – that I often stand back in awe of the ways they take on life and go after their dreams. These three awesome individuals are 23, 21, and 17, and it has been a joy to watch them grow and mature all these years.I believe in an "upside down" view on life - if we spent more time tending to the matters of those in our lives we care about and less on ourselves, the world would be an entirely different place - void of selfishness.Thanks to my beautiful daughter Kailey for setting this up for me. She ROCKS!I am "born and bred" from this area - Fairport in particular. I have a great job that I enjoy - although it is not the center of my life. I am either in the water, on the water, or around the water as much as I possibly can during the warmer months. In the winter I am on the mountain snowboarding. These are a part of who I am, but there is so much more...

My Interests

I love the water and am into boating and wakeboarding, motorcycling, snowboarding, biking, and live music...pretty much anything that includes hanging with family and friends. I am a Steelers fan but that is it for watching sports for me. I'd rather be OUTSIDE DOING SOMETHING FUN than sitting on my a$$....It's not so much WHAT you do as it is WHO you do it with. Did I mention that I love the water and am into boating? :-) And motorcycling...

I'd like to meet:

I am looking for an honest, fun loving, low-to-no-drama and sincere woman to share a LOT of conversations, laughs, smiles, and unspoken glances who wants an opportunity to learn more about not only someone else, but herself. I have no room in my life for pomp, pretense, nor games.My "match" is a woman of good character (and if you happen to be a “character,” that is great too!) who is confident in herself, I have been through some pretty rough times, but I keep on going with my head held up because I am not easily discouraged and my spirit is unsinkable and so is hers, although a little encouragement from time to time is appreciated. As they say, whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger and the glass is NOT half empty, it is half full. Being comfortable outdoors is also important because I am an active person. During the summer I spend as much time as I can outside mostly on and in the water or on my bike and in the winter I snowboard, and yes walking in the snow is another way of enjoying the upstate NY climate. If you have read this far then maybe you are considering the same thing. Are you looking for someone that is comfortable being himself so that you can simply be yourself and not worry about being judged or embarrassed? If so, drop me a line

Music:

Bands: Giant Panda Guerilla Dub Squad, Static-X, Dope, Deftones, Rob Zombie, Disturbed, Orange 9MM, PM5K, Limp Bizkit, Staind, Drowning Pool, Fuel, Godsmack, Saliva, Smashing Pumpkins, Ultraspank, Tool, Foo Fighters, Mudvayne, System of A Down, Sugar Ray, Buckcherry...just to name a few...Default - You Can Count On Me (The lyrics to the song on my page) I know that life ain't always good to you. I've seen exactly what it's put you through Thrown you around and turned you upside down and so you You got to thinking there was no way out You started sinking and it pulled you down It may be tough you've to get back up Because you know that life ain't over yet I'm here for you so don't forget You can count on me Cause' I will carry you till you carry on Anytime you need someone Somebody strong to lean on Well you can count on me To hold you till the healing is done And every time you fall apart Well you can hide here in my arms And you can count on me To hold you till that feeling is goneI wonder why nobody's waiting on you I'd like to be the one to pull you through your darkest times I'd love to be the light that finds you I see a silver lining on your cloud I'll pick you up whenever you fall down Just take my hand and I will help you stand Because you know that life ain't over yet I'm here for you so don't forget You can count on me Cause' I will carry you till you carry on Anytime you need someone Somebody strong to lean on Well you can count on me to hold you till the healing is done And every time you fall apart you can hide here in my arms And you can count on me to hold you till that feeling is Gone so you can live today Seems so long to yesterday Keep on counting on me to carry you till you carry on Carry onYou know that life ain't over yet I'm here for you so don't forget You can count on me cause I will carry you till you carry on Anytime you need someone Somebody strong to lean on Well you can count on me to hold you till that healing is done And every time you fall apart You can hide here in my arms And you can count on me to hold you till that feeling is gone Remember life ain't over yet I'm here for you so don't forget That you can count on me to hold you till that feeling is gone Remember life ain't over yet I'm here for you so don't forget That you can count on me to hold you till that feeling is gone

Movies:

Pulp Fiction remains one of my faves, along with Reservoir Dogs, but Malibu's Most Wanted and Dodgeball crack me up too...

Television:

I don't watch much TV at all, but I do love The Soprano's... ADD/ADHD Cure

Add to My Profile | More Videos

Books:

I read a lot; every night before bed. Recently a lot of John Grisham - The Partner, The Broker, A Painted House, Innocent Man, The Brethren, and a few others - any suggestions...?

Heroes:

...