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Social Butterfly

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we consciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our prescence automatically liberates others.
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You Are A Woman!

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You're emotionally mature, responsible, and unlikely to act out.
You accept that life is hard - and do your best to keep things upbeat.
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"I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous. " Carrie Bradshaw
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My Interests

Falling in love, Laughing so hard your face hurts, A hot shower, A special glance, Getting mail, Hearing your favorite song on the radio, Lying in bed listening to the rain outside, Hot towels out of the dryer, Finding the sweater you want is on sale for half price, Chocolate milkshake, A long distance phone call, A bubble bath, Giggling, A good conversation, The beach, Laughing at yourself, Midnight phone calls that last for hours, Running through sprinklers, Laughing for adsolutely no reason at all, Having someone tell you that you're beautiful, Laughing at an inside joke, Friends, Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep, Making new friends or spending time with old ones, Having someone play with your hair, Sweet dreams, Hot chocolate, Swinging on swings, Watching a good movie cuddled up on a couch with someone you love, Song lyrics printed inside your new CD cover so you can sing along without feeling stupid, Getting butterflies in your stomach every time you see that one person, Making eye contact with a cute stranger, Seeing smiles and hearing laughter from your friends, Holding hands with someone you care about, Running into an old friend and realizing that some things good or bad never change, Discovering that love is unconditional and stronger than time, Hugging the person you love, Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much desired present from you, Watching the sunrise, Getting out of bed every morning and thanking God for another beautiful day!

I'd like to meet:


It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

Music:

Spanish Rock, Salsa, Merengue, Vocal House, Hip-Hop, I am pretty eclectic when it comes to music, anything worth listening to....

Movies:

Just a Kiss,Pulp Fiction, Old School, Swingers, Weird Science, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, The Incredible Shrinking Woman, Staying Alive, Flashdance, The Matrix, Princess Bride, Requiem for a Dream, Usual Suspects, Star Wars (all of them), Passion of Christ, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind....

Television:

Sex and the City, Seinfeld, Comedy Channel,Travel Channel, Discovery Channel, (yes, I'm a dork)!! I don't watch too much tv

Books:

Celestine Prophecy, Rich Dad Poor Dad, 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Happiness by the Dalai Lama, In the Meantime, The Bible, The Book of Questions....definitely!! Books that stimulate my mind and change my life.

Heroes:

God, Parents, Grandparents, all those I know and love.... ;)

My Blog

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Wordpress I started a new blog at www.houstonsocialbutterfly.wordpress.com . It's all about my daily happenings and basically just me. Hope ya enjoy! ...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Tue, 11 Dec 2007 10:03:00 PST

The Call

I have heard it all my life, A voice calling a name I recognized as my own. Sometimes it comes as a soft-bellied whisper. Sometimes it holds an edge of urgency. But always it says: Wake up, my love...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 10:41:00 PST

Broken heart

She's come to the point where she says she's done She's lived her life, she's had her fun Broken promises endless dreams All is not what it seems When does it end, when is it over When does her "broke...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Wed, 10 Oct 2007 10:32:00 PST

Fierce Longing

There are momentswhen making lovewhen a doorto something elseopens.I am never prepared.There is no preparationfor the way it takes meand leaves me. Sometimes it is broughtby a movement of tenderness:s...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Wed, 30 May 2007 06:53:00 PST

New Thoughts...

Don't date because you are desperate. Don't marry because you are miserable Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior Don't philander because you think you are irresistable   Don...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Thu, 24 May 2007 06:45:00 PST

Love

I copied this from someone...but I completely agree to it.... I want to share this to all those who have loved and been hurt, those who haven't loved at all and those who are just about to discover th...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Fri, 19 May 2006 08:43:00 PST

And then she patiently waits....

And then she patiently waits..... Current mood: melancholy Is there a limit to how much her heart can breakIs there an amount of how much she can takeFor she gives and gives and all she getsIs a day...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Wed, 17 May 2006 06:44:00 PST

Signs of your soulmate....

13 signs of your soulmate 13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up but you miss them already when it was just five minutes ago...12. You read their texts over and over aga...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Wed, 19 Apr 2006 06:53:00 PST

His Loss....

He never got to know this woman; a friend, a lover, a child, a daughter, a sister, a girl. A womanThis crazy woman whose sanity he now doubts.A woman who has spent sleepless nights questioning who she...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Fri, 07 Apr 2006 07:26:00 PST

Freeing yourself....

Freeing YourselfKnowing When To Let Someone Go Just as a good relationship can have a positive impact on your life, stressful, draining, or imbalanced relationships can have negative effects on your h...
Posted by Social Butterfly on Thu, 30 Mar 2006 10:04:00 PST