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jo nathon

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About Me

Why does the feeling of LOVE make people crazy? I think because there is no greater feeling then to spend time with someone you are equally passionate about and truly care for their well being. Love elevates you to a place of absolute bliss but the actions of others can drive you insane because you can not change who they are. So choose wisely.Where do I begin? Well, I am often told I look like "big" from "Sex and the City" but act like Charlie from "Two and half Men" Been separated since Dec.04 filed for divorce in 3/05, but emotionally my marriage has been over for years. Don't get me wrong, she is a good lady. My issue was, she said she did not have chemistry with me and we got married because it looked good on paper. Her issue was that I was "selfish, inconsiderate, impulsive, shallow, driven, successful and did I mention selfish" Hey i'm a guy. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you something different- "Men are from Mars"If on the outside I look or even act like a "player", deep down I would like to meet special lady and just lie in bed all day with the woman I love. Since in many ways my personal/romantic life has been on hold, I would like to meet a lady to begin a friendship and maybe a relationship. I do not do walks on the beach holding hands (get real, no body does, just sounds good in an ad). Okay, okay, I do like holding hands and the feelings that come with it. I am not a huge outdoors person (I mean sports or camping), but I can play when properly motivated.I want to be in LOVE (maybe for the first time). I want a partner I'm crazy about and she feels the same way. Someone when I'm with them, the whole world shuts down around us... Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds

My Interests

Golf, social drinking, dancing and hanging out with friends.

I'd like to meet:

I'm looking for a lady to be my best friend, my best lover and my partner. She will have brains to go with the beauty. She will take me for who I am and while I may be a pain in the ass (at times), she will understand me and get me. She will not be guarded, she will want me and go after me with the same passion as I go after her. She has raw passion in her heart and has fire in her belly when she is intimate. She is strong on the outside but not afraid to show me the little girl inside. She will want me to be a man and she will want to be a lady without letting her indivuality be lost. She will always have a smile and when she looks at me, I feel the adoration of her heart as I return the feelings.

Music:

80's, alternative rock, 70's rock/roll, jazz and Joe Jackson

Movies:

Arthur, Big Chill, Matrix, Fight Club, Brian's Song, Message in a Bottle, What about Bob, Shawshank Redemption, Most Sci-Fi, All the James Bond films, To Catch a Thief (Cary Grant), Thomas Crown Affair (Pierce Bosnan), The Notebook, Princess Bride, etc...

Television:

Entourage, Nip/Tuck, Sex and the City, CSI (all of them), Kim Possible and Monday Night Football.

Books:

Sunday Paper, reading on the can. "Five People You Meet in Heaven" & "The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands" "Shut up, Stop Whining and Get a Life"

Heroes:

Mom & Dad... Anyone who is genuine, teachers, single mothers, the people who protect our country, my good friends and Willy Wonka. Most of all, my two boys!

My Blog

FAMILY

   F A M I L Y I ran into a stranger as he passed by, "Oh excuse me please" was my reply. He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you." We we re very polite, this stranger a...
Posted by jo nathon on Wed, 08 Nov 2006 08:06:00 PST

Iron John, A Book about Men

Excerpt from "Iron John, A Book About Men" by Robert Bly. Vintage Books; ISBN: 0679731199   Chapter 1: The Pillow and the Key   We talk a great deal about "the American man," as if there we...
Posted by jo nathon on Fri, 10 Feb 2006 04:08:00 PST