*~AsHlEiGh~*

My name is Ashleigh, i'm 22 years old, and i have a 4 year old little girl named Alexis and a 6 year old little boy named Jordan. They are awesome kids, and they mean the world to me!!! Right now i'm in court trying to fight my ex mother in law for custody of my kids, and that sucks. I never thought i would be fighting to get custody of my own babies.I'm real easy to get along with. It don't take a lot to piss me off these days. I'm a psycho bitch when someone fucks with my kids, or my man!!! I'm a really jealous person when it comes to my baby Dustin, if any bitch tries to holla at him i'll fuck a bitch up, so just keep that mind if you try to get with him!!!!I probally sound like a bitch and thats cause i am!!! I'm not one of those fake bitches, I'm real and you get what you see!!!!!If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better."You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you!Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If Something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything! He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within.Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you again. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationshipYou should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.Don't chase after a man thats not willing to treat you right, to be there for you, to love you, to show affection, to take you in public, to introduce u to his boys, whose not willing to give u his all, whose not willing to prove that ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME. No matter how much you think he'll change, no matter how much he fills your head with those lies, don't ever think your not good enough for him. Obviously he's still a lil boy, into the games, and when he starts to grow up and realize what he's lost, its HIS LOSS! You'll be with the one who already cares, who already loves you, who already needs you, who will give you the WORLD! Dont settle for the boy who wants sex and sex only, find you somebody who wants you for yourself!! If a man can't accept you at your worst, he sure as hell does'nt deserve you at your best!They say it Takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them polka layout powered by HOT FreeLayouts.com / MyHotComments