james

My life in a nutshell.There are so many things so I will break it down to 3 parts. work, relstionships, and hobbies/lifestyle. Kind of like a resume. I am fairly smart, and definitely funny. Any errors are typos. I do know my spelling.I grew up in Nashua. Family of six. Mom / dad still around. Active and happy. They live in Clearwater and have a cottage in Wells near the beach. I love it there. I am baby of family, older bro by 5 yrs,and two sisters2 and 4 yrs older as well.Worked at Alexanders Supermarket 84 to 90. Was bought by Hannnaford ( bad company to work for.) Moved on to tax appraisal for personal property taxes for businesses. Did that for six yrs. Burn out set in, went and got a job with Xerox. Worked there 5 yrs.In the mean time,I had started coaching baseball( kids under 12) in 86. ( My dad did it for 25 yrs). I started doing competetive travel teams which would travel to NY and play at Cooperstown for a week at a time. The first yr we competed, we lost in Champioship game to Panama City fla. ( Pete Rose coached them). We had beaten them the 1st night in a game that went 10 innings and finished at 2 am. It was awesome. In 2000, I left Xerox and took a job with the Cooperstown tournament people. I liked it , but seemed not a bright future like Was promised. So, left there, went about forty miles northwest and got a job as a casino host at Turningstone Casino in Oneida. Had to pass a 23 page background check....so I am somewhat a safe guy.During my 2nd yr there, my ex girlfriend came out to visit. She asked me to come back, so I left there and found a job as a warehouse supervisor. Basic 830- 5 , mon-fri type of job. Job was in Reading, since relocated to Wilmington.My social life was pretty non existant. I never dated in my 20's. spent my time coaching. I was too afraid to interact away from the field. I mean, the moms liked me, and I could hold court for hrs, and people seemed to listen and interact quite a bit. I was no nonsense, but more than fair.Now, here I am. Alone. Not unhappy by any means, but would like to find another happy person that likes to be happy. I do not spend any time really arguing or fighting. I will say what I feel, but am respectful and honest.My problem is really the fact that I can not dance. I do like watching good dancers. My mom and my uncle used to win dance contests back in highschool days, and dance really well at the weddings I have been at.I am laid back. I was living in upstate NY, alone, but had read alot of Zen stuff, and was very at ease and at peace with everything then. I was in quite a zone.Thanks for listening. Chapter Two will be out on dvd next week ! lol !Also,I am in love with the idea of love.I have never done drugs,never tried smoking, overall fairly shy when one on one with someone I think I like.I am even tempered. laid back, but funny to a fault. My goal in life is to try to live stress free........but will not run from it, but try to build my life so worry is less and less.I never care what people think, unless they are someone who I care about, then I strive to really listen.Thanks for reading my story, please feel free to drop me a line.