*Monica*

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Hey Everyone!!! I'm 23 born and raised in Fremont, Cali. I graduated from Washington High. I live on my own, do my own thing, go by my rules and live life to the very fullest without any regrets. First off I just wanna start out by saying no matter who or what you should always recognize GOD for giving us the chance to live and experience life. I'm definitely not your typical kinda girl! I'm a very fortunate individual for having both my parents in my life...My Mom who I know loves me regardless of the past and My Daddy who has put my siblings and I first and has provided us with anything and everything and those who know him know that's sooo true. I have the BEST LiL sis and bro in the whole wide world. I wouldn't trade them in for anything in the world. We went through it all and a lot of bullshit with our parents divorce but we stuck together all the way. My Aunt Roya who I consider my Best Friend and someone i can go to anytime for anything and everything and will always understand....always been there with open arms...I love you!
I've Experienced so much heartache within the past couple years. I've come to the conclusion that you will at some point in your life you come across obstacles and the challenge is to overcome them. There is very few people in my life that I let get close enough to me and to tell you the truth I've realized that those people that are close to me never gave up on so why should I give up on them??!! Life is full of surprises and it's amazing how people come in and out of our lives so fast and often...I'm just grateful for having my Family and the friends that became my family. Nuff Said!!!
I consider myself to be a very unique and artistic individual.I am all about GOALS in life and accomplishing them. I'm totally for school...you can never get enough education in this world! I get along with just about anybody and I always welcome people into my life with open arms. I love my friends and making new friends all the time, however It's unfortunate that some decide to judge me when they don't even know me. TO ALL YOU HATERS....FUCK WHAT YOUR HEARD AND RECOGNIZE WHAT YOU SEE!!! I'm the type of person that can balance my personality to just about anyones level...I know I'm One of a Kind!!! HaHa I wanna be able to look back in 50 years and remind myself that I lived life exactly the way I wanted to. So I'm ready to Laugh, Smile, Cry, and Hurt through this journey. I'm not one to be about money and material That's probably why Everyone loves me sooo much! I spend like it's my job and live like there's no tomorrow. I spend just about all my free time with friends and family. I work about 60 hours a week(don't ask how i do it..I just do). I have one tattoo and three piercings.
Cuz I'm a RAIDER, Oakland RAIDER From da bay to L.A. to Las Vegas Cuz I'm a playa, a boss playa and if you wit me pop ya colla shake dem hatas I'm a RAIDER FAN!! I HATE when people chew gum. COPS are HOT!!! Pineapples are my favorite.I LOVE sleeping in. I hate drama, mean bitches, cats, stupid guys, cigs, eggs, and sloW drivers. I'm not sure what my real hair color is. Piercings and tattoos are hot. I am open to all different genres of music. I have a huge shopping addiction. I love my MAC make up. i am outgoing. shy at first. i love reality tv, makeup, tanning, and being a weirdo. I LOVVVE FASHION! I jock Britney Spears!!Don't hate HaTerZ!!!
I can be sort of feisty at times but you know you guys love the attitude. I believe everything happens for a reason. i believe in love at first sight. i am not afraid to like or love someone and get hurt. I hate playing games with guys, if u like me sweet, if not, tell me, dont lead me on. i believe everyone is put on the earth for a specific reason. i try to be nice to everyone i meet, and see the good in all. you cant judge anyone until you have walked a mile in their shoes. because you dont know what people are going through. Im not a fake nice girl...im really just nice haha, unLess u chose to piss me off then i will give u the mean side of Monica. I LIVE EVERYDAY AS IF IT WAS MY LAST, i have learned that being mad is pointless being sad is pointless. Life is such a gift and everyday that your living and breathing you need to live it up and take chances and risks and have faith that God will help you through everything. And he will. i hate stuck up girls, they really make me mad. And when girlS stare... they will get a mean stare back as well. I hate cocky boys..confidence is very seXy though. INSECURITY big NO NO. Everyone be very secure with who you are... there is good in everyone! and the important people in life will see the good in you. I can just about get along with anyone. I always have a smile going on no matter what the situation is.... Dont try to be someone or something you are not. God made you YOU, so be YOU DAMNIT.i think you have to live life to the very fuLLest, try things, love, TAKE A CHANCE YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. forgive, learn, and dont let ANYTHING hoLd you back! In the end I'm glad for everything that has happend to me. It's only made me WISER, STRONGER, a BETTER PERSON! because you only live ONCE. Over all I'm an amazing person to be around and it's a privilege for YOU to be MY friend...
You Either Love me to Death or Hate Me With a Passion!!
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The Truth Is...

Life is too short to wake up in morning with regrets. so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it'd be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. even if something awful happened with someone MAYBE it was meant to happen. thats how you learn from your mistakes. but remember don't EVER regret anything...maybe thats how it was suppose to be. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll NEVER get back.I LIVE FOR LITTLE MOMENTS!!!You gotta take the good with the bad , smile with the sad, love what you got, and remember what you had. Always forgive but never forget , learn from you mistakes but never regret. People change, things go wrong, but just remember life goes on....
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