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Truth Journal
My views on relationship and love:
most the time when I guy comes along and likes a girl. Maybe she's a popular girl that is "all that" in the eyes of the public and throughout your peers at school. Either way, what if he is a nerd, or maybe he's just a little more unique than most people. First appearances count. Ya most people look for personality and a sense of humor, All the things that should count most. But... If someone does not live up to your standards you won't go out of your way to talk to them. The only way they will get you to notice them is if they do something extraordinary to get noticed. sometimes even then it fails. Most don't have the confidence to do anything about it anyway. Physical appearance is a key factor in finding a "partner."
GIRLS,
If you want to find a sensitive guy or one that will appreciate you then maybe you should try and look where you usually wouldn't. Maybe the outcast from across the room in your classes is actually the guy of your dreams. Maybe there is a prince charming under the glasses and the nedy outside. I'm not saying that only nerds and outcasts are nice guys but alot are and they need a chance too.
GUYS,
You need to treat girls alot better. They should not always be "hott" and "sexy." An attractive girl in my eyes is gorgeous, or beautiful, or pretty. My choice word is cute.
And if you like a girl and you don't think you have a chance, try it anyway. Go out of your way to get them to notice you. Don't obsess over it and don't get all "creepy" about it. But show them you like them, show them that you are what they want.... They just don't know it yet. Buy them flowers... leave chocolates on their doorstep, leave a not in their locker, do something so out of the ordinary that they have to notice. Make a huge poster and hang it in a room you know they'll see it in. You never know who you have a chance with... never underestimate yourself.
And if you don't succeed then don't make it a big deal. Just move on because some girls won't be worth your time.
And dont' think that I'm just saying girls need to look past looks and possessions...
guys are just as guilty. Most look for the looks also, like a "nice ass" or a "huge rack." Does it really matter. Some people just want someone they can relate to. Alot of guys are in relationships for the sex and the status. Girls also do this but not to the extent guys do. If you can connect with someone then why not give them a chance.
Why does our society put so much pressure on being beautiful and being hott or sexy. It doesn't matter. Eventually you are going to find someone you want to marry... whether they live up to the publics standards or appearance or not they will be beautiful to you because you connect with them and you have something special...
High school relationships should be the same. You can't have a serious relationship in highschool it's just not worth it... It's about having fun. being friends whether it's with benefits or not.
Jelousy is pointless also... that's what alot of most highschool relationships consist of is jelousy and lust. Why??? it's dumb. Just have fun. honestly... go on dates with different people... dont' stay in the middle school dating system.
"hey will you go out with me." then your bf and gf, you spend almost everyday with eachother. Friends get mad and jelous because their friends are spending more time with they bf/gf. Isn't it about time to get out of that stage. Being it's my senior year I've realized that you need to date somebody, (go on dates like the movies and dinner and maybe a picnic or even just hangout in the park, just spend time with just that person for a little bit.) then if you get along then date exclusively... but still have fun. In the end that's what it's all about right.
It's time to get out of the immature dating rituals that we have been accustomed to since we first started liking the opposite sex. It's time to grow up.
Don't be shy and don't be afraid, if you get shut down then you get shut down, just stand up and start again. It may not be just that easy but It's for sure worth it.
I'm just kind of spilling my guts here and I won't lie some of this is aimed toward experiences I have had but this is pretty much what I have learned through all those experiences.
If you have comments or questions or critisizms then go ahead but i just wanted to voice what i thought....
If you actually read through this entire thing then thank you... if you didn't like it then i'm sorry i wasted your time but maybe I can change some minds with this, maybe even help some people.
thank you
seth
Dedicated to Mayce Collard.
I'll never forget you or the things you taught me!!!
Keep smiling and we will all see you again someday.
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