Someone with an open mind and heart. My match will be a person who has a strong foundation and a passion for life. If they have children this is not a problem as most people our age do.Friendship is most important to me. A friendship is much harder to accomplish than physical chemistry. I'm not interested in a woman that is into a fast and furious hit and run type of relationship. I would like to meet someone that is mature and is not into playing games. I prefer a woman who likes to spend the "day" together. She has to like children, not just put up with them. Someone who is respectful and not afraid to show affection or be seen in public with her man. In terms of body type, a few extra pounds are okay. I want someone honest, spiritual, secure, strong, and unselfish. I like people who are themselves and do not put on an act. I have better things to do than to talk about or judge other people and I do not care to hear it when other people do. I want someone who will be there through the good times and bad.