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Bob

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me


About me.........hmmmm........let's see......well there's always been this feeling of being discounted or overlooked, underestimated, whether that be at work or socially. That does bring a fair amount of bitterness I've had to work through. And for that reason along with others I haven't wanted to subject many others to my negativity and depression.I've always had a hard time just enjoying myself. That's one thing I'm trying hard to change. I figure it's a waste of a life not to find pleasure in life and in myself, to keep living in the past and agonizing over missed opportunities. I have an ego, even though so many times I've let it out I've been made to feel guilty about it. But I really could give a shit anymore as to who gets bent outta shape about it.I realize I have a right to think highly of myself, because if I won't who will? I'm not one to garner a lot of praise or notoriety for anything. A little recognition once in awhile would be nice.I try to be civil to all with whom I interact and I do enjoy being amongst people, although at times I have very little to say. But just because my jowls ain't-a-flapping doesn't mean my mind isn't racing at a mile a minute. This silence can be seen as arrogance, being standoffish, disinterest, maybe even stupidity or at least a lower intellect at times. My curiosity doesn't take a verbal form much of the time.I'm anything but a simple,uncomplicated person.But I do feel a lot better about life; that things are beginning to turn my way for a change. Imagine that; even a slightly better attitude can affect positive change. I like where things are headed. I have goals in life that will lead me to where I need to be, to my right place. Where is that place? That part is not quite clear. But I feel something coming, something good everyday, no matter how big or small.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

That's a tough question for me. Who would I want to meet and why? People can say sports stars or musicians or business leaders or whoever. But then what? The person you wanted to meet so bad may be totally different in real life. Those who I like to meet the most are good friends, or those with whom a friendship develops. But most of all I want to meet my trueself. I'd also like to meet those who've been able to find their true selves and their right place in life.

My Blog

http://wanderinghubby.blogspot.com/

Here's my main blog, the one where I pull out all the stops. Not for the weak or faint of heart. Wandering Hubby
Posted by on Sat, 11 Aug 2007 09:21:00 GMT

Big Life Changes coming............

    Well........I finally did it. I had THE TALK with wife. Everything's out in the open now. It's out there. I cannot and will not go on in this relationship. It's time for everyone to...
Posted by on Sun, 24 Jun 2007 07:55:00 GMT

Life & Laughter

    Took one of those blog quizzes last night about finding your inner child. The results said that I was suppressing it inside me. I wasn't letting out who I really was, still keeping ...
Posted by on Sat, 28 Apr 2007 09:47:00 GMT

Cleaning House............

    Got my housecleaning done for today. My Myspace housecleaning that is. The real-life stuff awaits. With both, I feel good once I get going and actually start doing it. It's kinda li...
Posted by on Sat, 31 Mar 2007 09:23:00 GMT

Cool.

    Imagine my suprise when I was browsing through the DU list here and saw my pic. Cool.
Posted by on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 15:12:00 GMT

Friend Requests

    Not that a hetero male such as myself minds attention from beautiful young women but this porn spam here really blows. I know they're working on it. But damn, it's aggrivating. It'd...
Posted by on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 11:40:00 GMT

Favorite Things in Life...........

Some of my favorite things in life include sport, music, computers & the internet, exercise and health, finance, art, and politics and current events. A regular hangout of mine is Democratic Under...
Posted by on Sun, 25 Mar 2007 11:24:00 GMT

New look

The one thing I like about this site is the way you can play with the colors and designs so much. It's kinda like Art class in school. I love things that stimulate my creativity.
Posted by on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 21:52:00 GMT

Would love a Birthday Spanking ;-)

 Would love a birthday spanking today. Or tomorrow, or the next day, or the next............ ;-)        
Posted by on Sun, 03 Dec 2006 08:55:00 GMT