Life is ours to be spent not to be saved.

About Me

""We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand - and melting like a snowflake.""

"A beautiful girl can make you dizzy, like you've been drinking Jack and Coke all morning. She can make you feel high full of the single greatest commodity known to man--promise. Promise of a better day. Promise of a greater hope. Promise of a new tomorrow. This particular aura can be found in the gait of a beautiful girl. In her smile, in her soul, the way she makes every rotten little thing about life seem like it's going to be okay..."--Paul (Michael Rapaport), Beautiful Girls (1996).

My Interests

accents, art, Bill Engval, biting, black widows, books, broadway, burned cds, caffiene, cheating, chick flicks, children, cigaretts, coffee, columbia in chicago, dancing, Dane Cook, diamonds, dirty jokes, doctors, erotic art, fire, forigners, french language, g-strings, gay marriage, hand cuffs, heaven, hell, huskies, intelligence, irony, journalism, kama sutra, latin, lightening, long beach, love, lust, massages, mixed cds, moltov cocktails, money, music, never looking back, never looking foward, nicotiene, opinions, painted nails, people who vote, people-watching, pictures, piercings, possibilities, pro-chioce, pro-life, the Quest, rain, Ron White, sarcasm, sex, sinfest, sleeping, speeding, strangers, sun, surfing, swimming, tattoos, thunder storms, writing.Read my VisualDNA ™ Get your own VisualDNA™

I'd like to meet:

Chuck Palahniuk, Leonard Cohen, Janet Fitch, Tim O'Brien
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Music:

Dashboard Confessional, Garbage, Simple Plan, Something Corprate, SR-71, The Eagles, Linkin Park, Story of the Year, Norah Jones, Oasis, Queen, Vanessa Carlton, Flemming an John, Adema, Big & Rich, The Ataris, Blink 182, Garth Brooks, Kenny Chesney, Chicago soundtrack, Dixie Chicks, Drowning pool, Eminem, Eve 6, Everclear, Goo Goo Dolls, Green Day, Korn, Matchbox 20, Dave Matthews Band, John Mellencamp, The Beatles, The Doors, Alanis Morissette, Brad Paisley, Pink Floyd, Rent soundtrack, Silverchair, Sean Smith, Third Eye Blind, Bush, Five for Fighting, Counting Crows, Rascal Flatts, Leonard Cohen

Movies:

Almost Famous, The Notebook, Phantom of the Opera, Chicago, Alice in Wonderland, Brother Bear, Finding Nemo, Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella, Fox an the Hound, Sleeping Beauty, Lion King, Mulan, Aladdin, Evita, What Dreams May Come, Stand By Me, Great Expectations, Interview With the Vampire, Legends of the Fall, Spiderman, X-Men, Dogma, Secondhand Lions, two Weeks Notice, Sweet Home Alabama, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Garden State, Boondock Saints, Cold Mountain, Blue Collar Comedy Tour, Girl, Friday Night Lights, Fight Club, 300

Television:

Comedy Central Presents, Charmed, Gilmore Girls, Shorties Watching Shorties, Law an Order

Books:

Ready, Okay!, Middlesex, The Notebook, Virgin Suicides, White Oleander, Fall on your Knees, July July, The Things They Carried, In the Lake of the Woods, Bend Don't Shatter, Intimate Kisses, Smack, Cut, Back Roads, Stranger Music, Five Days in Summer, This Lullaby, Friday Night Lights, The God of Small Things, Water is Wide, Bum Rush the Page, Invisible Monsters, Choke, Lullaby, Fight Club

Heroes:

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My Blog

so guys, is it true?

Eleven secrets most men keep, including your husband:1. Yes, he falls in lust 10 times a day -- but it doesn't mean he wants to leave you.2. He actually does play golf to get away from you.3. He is un...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 02:40:00 PST

"they all lie..didn’t you know that already?"

i got down on the ground in the dirt in a skirt yeaterday. i got under my car jacked it up, took the tire off, threw that bitch in the back of Steven's truck, got it fixed and then put that bitch back...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Sun, 19 Aug 2007 07:11:00 PST

whatever it is

Sometimes you get nostalgic right, well that's right now for me so here's what or rather who I miss. Some are about the same people, some are not. If you think it's about you, you're probably right......
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Wed, 25 Jul 2007 09:43:00 PST

beer vs. pussy

totally jacked this from someone but i laughed so hard i almost cried. beer vs. pussy 1. Beer is always wet. Pussy needs a little work. - One point to BEER 2. Warm beer tastes awfu...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Thu, 19 Apr 2007 11:41:00 PST

It seems like we got the short end of the stick here...

Did you know: A female lioness in heat demands that her mate make love to her as many as 157 times in a 48-hour period, and that she will not ovulate until she is completely sexually satisfyed. ...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Fri, 09 Mar 2007 09:59:00 PST

give me the little things, and i promise i'll be happy.

it's hard to find someone that makes you happy for five minutes, let alone five years. when i say happy, i mean that honest to God, laugh-so-hard-milk-shoots- out-your-nose, 3 year-old giggles, pee-in...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Wed, 14 Feb 2007 03:12:00 PST

here's my shot of wild turkey, here's my shot of courage.

"But bless the child who becomes his own, beyond the blink and sigh blemished with tears while singing to survive. Masuerade the streetwise waving pride to zigzag through these swaggering changes when...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Mon, 13 Nov 2006 11:29:00 PST

it's football season...

You can't have a bad day during football season unless your teams aren't up to par. Currently, I'm having a pretty great day. LSU creamed Arizona 45-3. Georiga shut out South Carolina. Too bad Air For...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 11:03:00 PST

full moon and 14 stitches later....

So, I'm not really sure what to say at this exact point in time other then that I have 14 stitches in my face. I was attatcked/robbed when i got out of my car at my apartment. it was the same guy who ...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Thu, 10 Aug 2006 06:00:00 PST

Do nice guys really finish last?

At work I've heard several people, co-workers and guests alike, repeat the motto, "nice guys always finish last." My question is, how much of that is true? How many nice guys really exist? I've encoun...
Posted by Life is ours to be spent not to be saved. on Thu, 03 Aug 2006 10:16:00 PST