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Jena --
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A level headed person who always makes the wrong decision
'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

I've been waiting all this time to be someone I can't define.


Seduce my mind and you can have my body... find my soul and I'm yours forever.

I have an open mind that understands that without love, life has no application... a mind that does not judge, nor condemn, but openly takes in new ideas. And these ideas are merely a reflection of what inspires me... gives me hope, joy, passion and a reason to live.

Welcome to my World

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. It's that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are.

I have all the characteristics of a little girl and a wise woman intermingling within. I am charm personified and the epitome of femininity and elegance in the way I carry myself. I think I am beautiful, inside and out. Caring, yet carefree. I am pretty, easy-going, fun, loving, funny, witty, charming, polite, positive, optimistic, artistic, creative, ambitious, honest, capricious, precocious, playful, scintillating, intelligent, intellectual, philisophical, romantic, passionate, voluptuous, hot, sensual, seductive, sexy and unique in my own way. I can be kinda crazy (NOT psycho like 51/50) in a good way... especially when I am crazy for you! My best assets are my mind and my heart. And I'm a nice girl, just a little fiesty, when provoked. (Have you met Jane? She is my alter-ego. And my spiritual guide. You don't wanna mess with this Bitch. Trust me). I can be such a BAD GIRL! Yeah I suffer from the human condition. Sometimes I am selfish, superficial, super-sensitive, secretive, emotionally detached, vain, manipulative, egocentric, insincere, moody, weird, lazy, terribly indecisive at times AND I can be a Bitch. And I can be hard to handle sometimes. SO if you can't handle me at my worst, then you certainly don't deserve me and my best! I'm totally guilty-as-sin of cultivating attention. I LOVE IT. I think I am everything you have always wanted, just not in an obvious way. I will tell you and let you know what I think you should know about me... The real me is only exposed when I feel the time is right... some just can't handle my infinite nature.

I like her because she smiles at me and means it.

You were born an original. Don't die a copy.


The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.


When I am anxious it is because I am living in the future. When I am depressed it is because I am living in the past... I am carefree when I live now.

The happiest people don't have the best of everything... they just make the best of everything.

I'm enjoy being free to be mem, but I'm so clumsy always fallin' in love. Yeah, this love sick thing. I like serious relationships and a girl like me doesn't stay single for long, 'cause every time a boyfriend and I break up, my world is crushed and I'm all alone... the love bug crawls right back up and bites me and I'm back! It's still all about ME... BUT I am truly destined to have a partner. YOU + ME = WE baby. I can be all about relationships. It's my nature. Right now, I keep myself busy just livin' my life, trying to make everyone I love happy cause my happiness greatly depends on the happiness of others. AND I may love you... today, but maybe not tomorrow, so let's just take it one day at a time... 'cause tomorrow may never come.

What we are never changes... who we are never stops changing. Identity is the totality of our life experiences.

The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it... with every experience, you alone are painting your canvas, thought by thought, choice by choice.

And I'm not a player, I just crush A LOT! I'm a shameless flirt and I tend to lead people on, sometimes in vain, just to see if I still got it. And I do. SO for that I apologize in advance cause I can be a tease. I confess. I'm a lover, not a fighter. Yes I do love that four letter word: LOVE! I take matters of the heart seriously as I wear my heart on my sleeve. Heartache sometimes comes with the territory and I am okay with that. Ain't love grand? The flipside: Love hurts. But even I know I'm still gonna love like never before.

Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important.

If you want to be happy, BE.


Happiness is the feeling you're feeling when you want to keep feeling it.


My niece, Miss Tiffany


Life is simple, it's just not easy. In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on...

Love is life to me. I love my life. Live to love and love to live. Do what you love and love who you do. Always love. It is the simple things that make me happy. Everythings changes, but essentially I stay the same - I'm just me. Things change. People change. I embrace change, hell, I welcome it... and it can only get better. Like a fine wine, I only get better with age... Even though I am as unsure about everything as I have ever been these days, I have some great ideas for the future, my future, and coupled a little motivation and with some ambitious drive, these goals and aspirations can and will come true. I know it. I am much more of a thinker rather than a doer, yet I think everything's eventual. In life, I have choices, challenges and chances. I make a choice, I'm up for the challenge and I'm going to take that chance. And I have this overwhelming desire to be of service to people, I want to help anyone and everyone, those less fortunate and especially those I hold close. If you've got it like that I'll do anything for you. But I want money. That's what I want. I know. I know. More money - more problems. Money can't buy me love OR happiness. But hey that's okay cause I am gonna be rich someday. Yeah. It's in the cards. And the stars are in my favor. Only then will I be able to volunteer more and concentrate my work and activities towards charitable causes in the community. And don't get me wrong, I am not too materialistic - Sure, I like going places and I love new experiences more than "things" - but I do enjoy being luxuriously comfortable, living like a Queen! Definitely beyond my means, but I always manage. Besides, I am already wealthy, measured in so many ways. I am truly grateful and I consider myself blessed for all I have in my life.

Love me or hate me - either way you're thinking of me...

Yeah. Sometimes, I walk that fine line between love and hate.


It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.


Whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it... because you'll find that when you're free, your true self comes out.

Perhaps the feelings that we experience when we are in love represents a normal state. Being in love shows a person who he should be.

Did I mention I am in love with LOVE?! Yes, in fact, I fall in and out of love quite easily... in like or in love, there is something about it that is so invigorating and rejuvenating. Put a smile on my face and I'm yours. Love sweet love. Once I love you... I love forever. Love is a beautifier and I am my best and most lovely when I am in love. I also know that there are so many different ways one can love someone. And I can love you like that. I trust in the idea of "soul mates," that they do exist... there is a special person with whom one is meant to be. I also believe in true love. It is real. As well as love at first sight. I know. I've experienced both.

Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.

It's a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.

Everything happens for a reason; what will be will be and we are all connected by the little synchronicities in life. It is what it is and whatever it is... IS meant to be. I don't like to be half-way with anything I like or love - it's all or nothing with me. I either like you or I don't - I want you or I don't - I like it or love it - love it or leave it, I guess. I can get along with almost anyone... BUT I abhor drama. SO if I don't like you, just know it's because of YOU. When you're with me, just being ourselves and having fun is what it's all about.

Happiness is an inside job.

Many people think they want things, but they don't really have the strength, the discipline. They are weak. I believe that you get what you want if you want it badly enough.


Time you enjoy wasting, was not wasted.


The only way to have a life is to commit to it like crazy.


Whatever you are be a good one.



Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.



I am my own Heaven and Hell. If my Devils were to leave me, I'm afraid my Angels will take flight as well.


The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23



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Infinite love is one of the only truths...

True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by coming to see an imperfect person perfectly.

It is rewarding to find someone you like, but it is essential to like yourself. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love, but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things. For you cannot live in someone else. You cannot find yourself in someone else. You cannot be given a life by someone else. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never leave or lose. To the question of your life, you are the only answer. To the problems of your life, you are the only solution.

The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.

God determines who walks into your life... it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.

Never settle for less than you deserve... 'cause that's exactly what you'll get!

Cinderella walked on broken glass, Sleeping Beauty let a whole lifetime pass, Belle fell in love with a hideous beast, Jasmine married a common thief, Ariel walked on land for love and life, Snow White barely escaped a knife. It was all about blood, sweat, and tears because love means facing your biggest fears."

Someday someone will come into your life and you will realize why it just didn't work out with anyone else.

Right now, I am focused on loving myself and just being me 'cause your Self is all you have in the end. I know one cannot truly love another until one loves one's Self. It's a gradual process and I'm a work in progress. I live for others & to bring sunshine and happiness into the lives of those around me makes ME happy (: I try to keep in mind The Golden Rule: treat others how you want to be treated. How I act towards people and care for others is exactly how I want to be treated. KARMA is a bitch and what goes around comes around. And I just wanna be happy... with or without you. I'm a great friend and because of that, I have really great friends (you know who you are.) After all, according to the Law of Attraction, certain people come into your life... and I have to believe it's for a reason, a season or a lifetime and sometimes it is not up to you. I really want to be special to someone to be remembered forever, so that I never never never die. I want the World and I deserve the best in life... and I will settle for more 'cause if you settle for less, that's just what you'll get! One thing I know for sure is that I must be stable enough to stand solidly on my own before I can commit to anyone. I am independent, relaxing more, just enjoying life. I love meeting new people like me: Open-minded, out-going, good-looking, good natured, different, interesting, unique people with a zest for life and a want for new experiences - who know all about having a good time!

The secret to a successful love life is to expect the best for yourself and reject anyone who doesn't give it to you.

Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.



FRIENDS

Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things.

I'm not really into certain types (I have fallen for all kinds of people) But I DO have a weakness for nice - I want someone who is as smart, sweet and sexy as I am. I'll admit it, looks and charm will get you in... but it's substance that has staying power.

Finding the one is like a falling star who has finally found her place next to another in a lovely constellation, where we will sparkle in the heavens forever.

Kiss me and you will see stars; love me and I will give them to you.

Totally not interested in you LIARS, Drama Queens, self-proclaimed bad-boys, playboys, fundraisers, wanna-be players, assholes, jerks, thugs or losers in general. And I don't do DJs, bartenders, dancers or anyone else who works in the nightlife. I've certainly had my share and enough of that perpetual waste of time.

The body never lies.

How long has it been since someone touched part of you other than your body?

I like women, but I love men. I am blessed to have someone special in my life right now. What I really want is a life partner: one with whom I can share everything with. I am fortunate to have found my Other: the female version. My BFF! We live together which is the ultimate test of any relationship. But I want a man. A real man. Someone who wants to be with me, too, who likes me for me. The real me... one who wants to share life to the fullest and join me on this journey we call life... Discover me.

I am not looking for love on MySpace thankyouverymuch. MySpace is a place for friends LOL

Now go check out my blogs & I get around, so be sure to add me on FACEBOOK at www.facebook.com/JLO1111 and follow me on Twitter at www.twitter.com/JtotheLO (you know). Send me a message, leave a comment - whatever! Just leave me love (I love LOVE). I'm also on AIM as jen6988221111 or Yahoo! as Jen69baby anytime.


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Posted by on Thu, 12 Mar 2009 14:11:00 GMT

My Personal Portrait

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Posted by on Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:44:00 GMT

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Good Karma

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Posted by on Wed, 20 Aug 2008 16:44:00 GMT

The Change Manifesto

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Posted by on Fri, 18 Jul 2008 14:44:00 GMT

Hope Springs Eternal

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Me, Myself and I

I posted this Blog back on 02.11 and today I feel about the same.  Not much has changed really... this and that, you know, a little here and there, but nothing majorly life-altering.  N...
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