Myself again at age sixteen. I would tell myself what I might gain by being in control of my own destiny... and to stay in college one more year. That kids are so GREAT that you need not wait quite so long to have them, so you could have as many as you always wanted. To stay alert for the magic of a sunrise or a sunset. . . . . And to be joyful often. Be generous, especially with yourself. Martyrdom IS dumb. Death is nothing to fear. Tell the universe you have more love to GIVE. Accept the love the universe has provided you. Rock On.