My name is Vanessa. I'm a mother of 3 amazing girls Lydia Tara and Tori and my only son Gino. I'm engaged to the best man ever named Brandy. Hes just simply amazing .I'm tired of messages saying "YOO wuz up gurrrll, letz do it!" yeah...not chill at all. I"m far from perfect but I try to be the best I can be but it seems that's not enough.I believe that everything happens for a reason.People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you can eventually learn t trust no one but yourself,and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.As far as my personality goes.. I'm headstrong and not shy about expressing my opinions on any subject. I'm a deep thinker, I'm constantly contemplating everything. I'm a natural observer and a creature of habit. Motivated by self-preservation, I'm not a spontaneous risk taker, every decision I make is slow and methodical. I'm not the most visibly emotional person, instead I'm calm and collected. I'm very passionate for the people and things I love. I have big dreams and set high standards for myself. I'm peaceful, positive, kind-hearted and a very loyal friend. Overall, I would describe myself as pretty complex individual.I am about to endure one of the hardest parts of my life. I'm about to go threw a divorce from my husband of 3 years. Honestly its for the best its over and I'm glad my children are still too young to know whats going on. I'm so glad I have Brandy by my side with all of this. He is my rock, he is my shoulder to lean on, he is my everything. I'm so glad he is so supportive over my situation and doesn't look down to me at all. He has been there for me sense day one and i know he will forever be there for me as i have been there for him. he has given me anything i could ever ask for- respect, love, and being an amazing father not only to his own children but to mine as well. How do you even thank anyone for being so amazing? i find it hard to say sometimes. When the words come I will be able to do so. And i want to thank everyone who has been there for me when all the stuff between my husband and i fell apart. And surprisingly enough I also want to thank my husband...not for putting my mind and heart threw so much pain but for teaching me that life is harsh and cruel and no matter how much you try to make everything perfect, nothing will EVER be 100% how you want it. Thats an important life lesson i dint know until then. UPDATE!!!!!! So i had my court hearing and he is dragging everything out. he did nothing but lie.Shame on him. I have my next court hearing in October. And then i hope that will be the last of all of this.
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