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Barbie Badley

My heart knows me better than I know myself.

About Me

I edited my profile with Thomas' Myspace Editor V4.4 a I edited my profile with Thomas' Myspace Editor V4.4 I edited my profile with Thomas' Myspace Editor V4.4 Hello. I'm Barbara. I've been dating the same man for about 2 and a half years. Let me first tell you, that he is a strong person for being able to cope with my attitude problem. He's also taught me a lot about healthy homelife, something I did not learn as a child. I've got a strong personality, and I generally have to tone it down to maintain relationships with other people. My real friends never piss me off, and that's the truth. I can prove it because if they had, we would never talk again. I can hold a grudge, but generally when I out someone from my life it's because they're exhausting too much of my energy on their melodramatic bullshit. I am way too self centered to care that much about other people's problems. Hey...this is the about me section, I can say whatever I want. Okay, there are nice things about me once you get past my tough outter shell. I love children because you can learn so much about the way people become who they are as adults. I have learned so much about myself through getting my degree in Human Development and working in a preschool. I love to observe relationships and socialization. People are fuckin weird, to say the least. I am completely part of this generalization. I am fucking weird. The only problem with that, is that I sit around and torment my brain to try to figure out my weirdness. My bestfriends in the world are fucking weird too, and that's why I love them. When I am permitted to be myself without judgement, I am the best person you'll ever know. I'm super fuckin honest, and for the most part I think I am able to deliver my opinion without hurting people. I'm very sensitive to what other people think about me because I think I'm perfect. JK. But I do think my decisions thru, and therefore I feel that I rarely make a bad one (except when I am being impulsive which is when I'm angry). I have a hard time commiting to anything because I'm afraid of making a bad choice. I have a hard time saying sorry, even if I am, but if I do say sorry, you know I mean it because I don't lie. I'm very intuitive (to other people, not myself). I want to be a family therapist when I grow up so I can help people stop fucking up their kids (I can dream). Believe it or not, I love to laugh. I have one of the loudest, most obnoxious laughs you'll ever hear, but you have to earn it or you just get a chuckle. I love art, music, anything outdoors, and I LOVE the water. I'm a water baby. I love to ride motorcycles, especially with my dad. I love to party, I love men and women, women more.I love my mom because she has all the answers. I love my aunties and my grandma because they are a true inspiration to independent women. I love my family. I love watching my sister become a woman. I love Mr.JD BROWN!!I love real people and real friendships. I thrive on intense experiences. However, I am a little bit of chicken, I don't like getting hurt. I love traveling, exploring, excitement, anything new. When I have too much time on my hands, I get bored, depressed, and ridden with anxiety. I'm a very happy basket case. My life is in complete limbo. I waste too much time stereotyping behaviors and it constrains me. Obviously, this is one of those times in my life that I am over analyzing. SO if you are reading this and you don't know me, I'm sure I have scared you off....haha IF you do know me, most likely you love me, unless you're an idiot. I love you too!Contact Tables

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April
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret.Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their luver can see.

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Music:

I love a wide range of music; Beastie Boys, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Mos Def, Outkast, Sublime, Tool, The Killers, The Strokes, Billy Idol, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Shakira, Jamiroquai, Santana, Gwen Stefani, Justin Timerlake, KT Tunstall, Christina Aguilera, Portishead, The Cure, Bjork, The Roots, Joni Mitchell, Carol King, Nikka Costa, 2Live Crew, Radiohead, Flaming Lips, Jurassic 5, Deltron, Dilated Peoples, Sade, 311, Beck, The Beatles, The Doors, Norah Jones, Fiona Apple, Thalia, and many more. I appreciate all music for what it is, and love trying out new stuff. Luckily my bestfriend is a music conoseuir and she shows me cool bands like Cafe Tacuba, Peaches, Ladytron, MIA.

Movies:

Sixteen Candles (all time favorite), Donnie Darko, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Swingers, Mallrats, Weird Science, Once Upon a Time in Mexico, Edward Scissor Hands, Tommy Boy, Secretary, Amelie, Run Lola Run, Pirates of the Carribean, Walk the Line, Night at the Museum, Lucky Number Slevin

Television:

There was a time, I had no TV and I read books, now I do have a TV and I love to watch the History Channel, National Geaographic, Discovery...Modern Marvels, and Detective shows are great. If I'm watching TV with my boo, I am ususally watching the New Cops, Laguna Beach, Tyra, Ugly Betty

Books:

Stranger, Ishmeal, Post Office, Women (that book will make you feel like a perv), On The Road, A Catcher in The Rye, Wrinkle in Time, Ask The Dust, Cat's Cradle, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, The DaVinci Code, Like Water for Chocolate (poor Tita), new favorite Thomas and Beulah, but no I don't normally read poetry. Oh yeah and A People's History of the US by Howard Zinn, and We wish to inform you that tomorrow we will be killed with our families. Stories from Rwanda. The Buried Mirror.

Heroes:

The women in my family. And my buddy Mike, who taught me so much and still inspires me everyday. By far, the most interesting person I have ever known. I miss you!