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spider jim

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Basic principles... there are none.No woman wakes up sayin " God, i hope i dont get swept off my feet today" Everyone wants to meet someone that bowls you over, and takes us out of our day to day experiences. 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it. 8 out of 10 women believe that the first kiss will tell them everything they need to know, the secret is to go 90% of the way and hold for the 10%Because that's what people do. They leap, and hope to God they can fly, because otherwise you just drop like a rock, wondering the whole way down, why in the *hell* did I jump? Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away. So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows... but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you're enjoying your life, and the next you're wondering how you ever lived without them.well hello i am james, I guess i am a quiet kinda guy! compared to all my mates anyway!i am often referred to as "hitch" because i am told i am good at relationship advice but fail miserably at my own !!!! i like to have a laff and experience new things, life is too short you have to make the most of things whilst you still can or you may never get the opportunity to do them again. i am very laid back some say that much im nearly horizontal!! i only accept people who are honest to me, had enough of bad experiences already to know that you cant trust anybody. If you are honest with people then you will get further than lying. Enough of that anyway..i went to college to study graphic communications for 2 yrs. discovered that it wasnt my area of art that i enjoyed. Ended up doing a 2yr course bricklaying, worked with a building firm whilst i was at college and now i am running my own building company! Crazy career change i know, but i love it. Everyday is different which keeps you on your toes! I live in a small town where everybody knows everbody!! i have just started snowboarding which i cant wait to master! i like to go out alot and have fun but also enjoy my nights in relaxing and getting a takeaway.i am a bit of a softy but no push over. i love tattos especialy tribal and celtic designs i have one on my back which i designed myself, planning on getting more but not had chance yet!! i am very interested in the new zealand moari culture. there art work is truly amazing.i love to draw, anytime i get bored out comes the pencil and paper!! i am quite athletic, i try to go to the gym as much as i can but been a builder i cant resist my full fry ups in the morning! yea... bad i kno but i love em!!

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Years ago, when I was backpacking across Western Europe…I was just outside Barcelona hiking in the foothills of Mount Tibidabo. I was at the end of this path and I came to a clearing and there was a lake, very secluded. And there were tall trees all around. (Whispering) It was dead silent. Gorgeous. (Softly) And across the lake I saw…a beautiful woman…bathing herself…but she was crying…

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confusing questions!!!!!

Why is it that people say they "slept like a baby" when babies wake up every two hours? Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are flat? Why do banks charge a fee on "in...
Posted by spider jim on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 07:07:00 PST

did you ever stop and wonder!!

did you ever stop and wonder.................. Who was the first person to look at a cow and say, " i think i'll squeeze these pink dangly things here, and drink whatever comes out?" Who was the first...
Posted by spider jim on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 06:58:00 PST