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Melissa

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

Reside in Michigan. Originally from Tennessee. I'm a chubby chick...approximately 5'6, a bbw, strawberry blonde hair, hazel eyes, fair skinned, and freckles. I'm very laid back. My sense of humor is more the dry sarcasm type...

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

God has been very good to me and for that I am very thankful. I had hit rock bottom in more ways than one. Both my career, financial, and emotional life were so low you couldn't scrape me off the bottom of your shoe. Slowly but surely things started to change. First the job. I was extremely luckly to get my job. Two thumbs up there. Then there was the financial part. That was corrected with the job. (Like I said, two thumbs up.)I'm here for friendship and if something progresses beyond that, fabulous. I've been divorced for 6 years now and I've kissed my share of frogs. Tired of that. Thank goodness I don't take the whole dating thing too seriously or I would be one seriously depressed person. In my 6 years of dating I've learned a lot about what I do and don't want in a relationship. I think the biggest thing that comes to mind that I DON'T want is drama. I'm too old for that shit. Get your house in order and then start looking for a relationship. Don't drag someone into your personal Hell. Love yourself first, because you can't love anyone else until you love yourself. Now I'm well aware everyone has some sort of drama in their life, but it's all about how you carry it and deal with it. Cowgirl up! Man up! Deal with it and then move on. For Gods sake MOVE ON! Don't let it consume you and bring you down. It's hard, I know. I've been there, done that and got the divorce papers that say so. But when it's all said and done you only get the one life. Be happy.

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My Blog

Self discovery

I have discovered something about myself.  That is that I require attention.  Meaning if I'm interested (seeing, whatever you want to called it) in someone, I need attention from them. ...
Posted by on Mon, 26 Feb 2007 21:29:00 GMT

How do you know?

How do you know someone is into you?  Is there some secret sign?  For example...If you've just met someone, been on a first date which seemed to go well, how do you know they are into you?&n...
Posted by on Mon, 26 Feb 2007 17:53:00 GMT

Where to meet decent guys?

Ok, I have a serious question to ask.  First I'll give you a little info.  I'm not a party girl, not a real drinker, I don't hang out at bars, and the friends I have don't live anywhere near...
Posted by on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 17:10:00 GMT