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(_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._)

Eventually all the pieces fall into place, until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment,

About Me


I'm just me and that will fall on you however it may.A science geek with an artistic streak who's big into fitness.I'm the girl who laughs-for every reason and for no reason at all. I think about everything. I'm a hopeless romantic who believes that every once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love hands you a fairy tale. I get excited about the smallest things. I enjoy the company of friends. I enjoy time alone for reflection. I'll wear white and get it dirty. I dream in color. I believe anything is possible. I give my all. I love art. I'm the girl who will sit by the water having lunch and discussing scripture. I dance like nobody and everybody is watching. Jump out of bed and toss my hair up in a messy bun just to run out for coffee with as much ease as getting all dolled up just for a night on the town with you. Don't care if I break a nail. Talk until the sun comes up. Try anything new at the drop of a hat. I have presence. I have faith.By my standards I'm your average girl, out there, living the life she was given...authentically...what you see is merely an expression of the core on the inside. I've been rather introspective in my "adult" years...always wanting to truly understand myself and always trying to 1. see the good in every situation (no matter how ugly) and 2. realize what I can learn from every experience I have. We never stop learning and growing and certainly can always benefit from a new perspective on our lives and the way we think about them. I usually have 1,000,002 things going on at once...friends reading this are sarcastically thinking 'only 1,000,002?' I'm sure. I've been told "if you had any more energy you'd explode." Mostly because my doctorate consumes extreme quantities of my time and yet I refuse to sacrifice all of the other things I enjoy (i.e. friends, family, relationships, exercise) so instead I often find that I sacrifice sleep because there simply are not enough hours in a day for me to do it all. I don’t take myself too seriously, life is too short to be spent uptight, you need to be the first person to laugh at yourself. By my standards that's average, my standards, however, are skewed by the fact that I surround myself with people who take an equally active roll to life...rather different from what the rest of the world probably considers "average".
This is it, you only have one life, what will you do with the time given you? You want to be miserable? Live life looking over your shoulder. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything given to them. When one door closes, another opens, but if you look too long at the closed door you might not see the one which has been opened for you! "Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus" Philippians 3:13-14
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My Interests




Pilates (puh-LAH-teez). Intriguing conversations. Laughing. Kicking my feet up at a funky coffee house or bar with someone I love across from me, talking or just enjoying the moment. A good workout. Relaxing in a jacuzzi. Red Sox. Patriots. Horseback riding. Fresh flowers. Hiking. Worship.Skills....who needs a gymnastics studio? Right Ry? ;) ..

I'd like to meet:

Interesting, funny, and active people! Can you keep up?~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥~* ~♥~*~It is true that there are those of us who don't know what we have until we've lost it, but it is also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥~*~♥ ~*~♥~*~"Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth.""Do you not know that there comes a midnight hour when every one has to throw off his mask? Do you believe that life will always let itself be mocked? Do you think you can slip away a little before midnight in order to avoid this? Or are you not terrified by it? I have seen men in real life who so long deceived others that at last their true nature could not reveal itself;... In every man there is something which to a certain degree prevents him from becoming perfectly transparent to himself; and this may be the case in so high a degree, he may be so inexplicably woven into relationships of life which extend far beyond himself that he almost cannot reveal himself. But he who cannot reveal himself cannot love, and he who cannot love is the most unhappy man of all." ~ Soren Kierkegaard
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Music:

Dave Matthews Band, Shakira, Casting Crowns, Jars of Clay, Led Zepplin, Linkin Park, Over the Rhine, Tyrone Wells, India.Arie, Jack Johnson, The Fray, Snow Patrol, Matisyahu, Nichole Nordeman, Third Day, HEM, Eminem, Black Eyed Peas, Fergie, Ne-Yo, Nickelback, Evanescence, JT, RHCP, John Daley (*ahem* hint, HINT), etc....pretty diverse taste.

Movies:

Crash, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Notebook, The Boondock Saints

Television:

Grey's Anatomy, So you think you can dance, House, CSI, 24

Books:

Authors make for a shorter list: Francine Rivers, Don Miller, C.S. Lewis, Max Lucado, John Piper, J.R.R. Tolkien, Lance Armstrong

Heroes:

My parents

My Blog

My prince

In the grand scheme of things I thought I'd always done rather well for myself.  I thought.  I've dated some really wonderful men.  I thought.  This one, he just blows the rest of ...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Wed, 17 Oct 2007 05:33:00 PST

Taken

Perhaps you've heard this...   Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep...wait for...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Wed, 10 Oct 2007 10:07:00 PST

So much more

At some point in life we get an idea of who we want to be professionally.  At twenty-something when you meet new people one of the first questions you'll hear is "So what do you do?"  Or per...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 06:22:00 PST

It's official!

It was decided tonight... If the day comes when I decide I've had enough with being a scientist, I will open my own bakery.  Not only that, but I already have my financial backer and the person w...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Wed, 04 Jul 2007 09:07:00 PST

We are one

Sarah and I are those best friends.  One person inhabiting two bodies.  Driven, ambitious, intuitive, inquisitive, shit together, head on straight, loving, encouraging, spiritual, sarcastic,...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Thu, 28 Jun 2007 08:19:00 PST

Relay roundup

We are here.  We can help.  That's the American Cancer Society motto. Starting late Friday afternoon 2,000 people gathered at Pratt Field.  Teams were checked in, camp sites were set u...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 08:58:00 PST

Good Friday

It began the evening before with the Passover celebration...the telling of the story of miraculous transitions-from slavery to freedom, from despair to hope, from darkness to light.  But this tim...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Fri, 06 Apr 2007 09:32:00 PST

Relay for Life

Click to make a donation and sponsor me.   "I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa   I have watched people I love - ...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 08:03:00 PST

I know where you can find one

We are all broken. We are all being transformed. But the man worth pursuing is the man who is himself pursuing God, humility, integrity, edification, discipline, generosity, purity, friendship, f...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Tue, 27 Feb 2007 10:17:00 PST

Not an accident

On many occasions when someone is getting to know me I have been asked "How can you be a Christian and a scientist?!" As though the two should contradict one another.  I mean, even my pastor has ...
Posted by (_.·′¯) Dee (¯`·._) on Thu, 22 Feb 2007 10:04:00 PST