alltamara

I'd like to meet:

I Expect honesty from anyone. Trust is not a priviledge. It is earned. I want to meet people who have honor, integrity and a good moral and ethical guide they live by. I want to meet people that know the difference between right and wrong. You can tell a person by the rules they live by when no one else is looking. Same can be said of age. I know people in their early twenties who know how to work hard and earn what they have and know how to treat people with respect, kindness and appreciation and I know people in their late twenties who still act like lazy, spoiled 12 year olds and blame everyone and everything but themselves for their problems and expect the world and those in it to hand them everything on a silver platter without working for or earning anything. you just have to be careful when you decide which are which before you let them into your life. I believe everyone has good in them. Some people just don't know how to tap into it. And some never will - I value people who do not lie. There is nothing more unattractive than a compulsive and habitual liar. I want to meet people who know that love is not a word you throw around carelessly. I want to meet people who know the value of investing in family and friendships and know what the words commitment and devotion and faithfulness mean. I want to meet people who are mature enough to make their own decisions and follow their own heart. I want to meet people that recognize the sacrifices and love and investment those that love them give to them and appreciate and respect and love them for it and are able to give that back unselfishly. I value people who are real and honest and don't use people to get what they want. It sucks to give your heart and life to someone that treats you like an option and you owe them something for blessing you with their presence. Some people have perfected getting in the door of your life with wit and charm and fakeness that is not really them but once the real nature of the person comes out (and it always does) they are left to move on to the next person and the next person each time they are found out, never being anything more than a selfish, narcissistic user who will never know the value and joy of true love, friendship or happiness. Even worse if the behavior is overlooked and enabled by your family. I'd like to meet a person who can talk and laugh with me and see the good in life and those around them.<