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perfecting leisure

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About Me

"Things which make me happy, get me giddy, or keep me otherwise amused: left over mexican food for breakfast, gritty black and white photography, listening to local bands while getting tipsy and stepping on other people's toes (because I like to salsa dance even if it isn't salsa music), modern art museums, London, borrowing a book from a friend with their own notes in the margins, the kind of college friends that will sing Jose Cuervo loudly and off key at my own wedding, the UPS man knocking on the door to deliver a package, love, expectation, and Excedrin (god, I love exedrin). I would expand, but what else does a human being need??Things that disappoint me daily: my own driving, insomnia, and inability to ever wear matching socks.

My Interests

Rainbow at Niagara Falls, 2006.. "

I'd like to meet:

Those who are clever, long-winded or well-read. People who can tell a good deadpan joke, play a musical instrument, handle life with either grace or sarcasm, stay up as late as I do, or can teach me how to hold a martini glass upright. Gamblers. Latin dancers. Crossword puzzle writers.
A lifetime isn't long enough for the beauty of this world and the responsibilities of your life. Scatter your flowers over the graves, and walk away. Be good natured and untidy in your exuberance. In the glare of your mind, be modest, and beholden to what is tactile and thrilling. ~~Mary Oliver~~

Music:

Here it is, I guess... the thrust and crumble, the beat and rumble of an unheard band... THE MUSIC: (in no order) TV on the Radio, Hot Chip, The Subways, The National, Okkervil River, Page France, Snowden, Peter Schmidt, I Love Math, Ozomatli, The Cloud Room, Grupo Fantasma, The Stills, Bright Eyes,The Virgins, White Rabbits, Hot Hot Heat, White Stripes, Tokyo Police Club, Flaming Lips, Shout Out Louds, Cary Brothers, Arcade Fire, Deathray Davies, I Love You but I've Chosen Darkness, Bloc Party, Jamiroquai, The Beatles, Tricky, The Oranges Band, I am Kloot, French Kicks, Keane, Happy Bullets, Ian Brown, Secret Machines, Iron and Wine, Blur, the TahDahs, Beck, Pavement, Desaparecidos, Frank Sinatra, Nirvana, Radiohead, The Killers, Johnny Cash, Postal Service, LCD Soundsystem, Ryan Adams, Spoon, Phoenix, The Damnwells, Red House Painters, Andrew Bird, The Dears, The Delays, Athlete, Electrelane, Jude, The Wallflowers, Rufus Wainwright, Caetano Veloso, Ted Leo, Arcade Fire, Cat Stevens, Elvis Costello, Death From Above 1979, Broken Social Scene, Athlete, Pulp, Pretty Girls Make Graves, Santana, Iron and Wine, Jude, Duncan Sheik, Rilo, Redlightmusic, Sufjan Stevens, The Futureheads, Bob Schneider, Phish, Depeche Mode, Wilco, Trembling Blue Stars, the Roots, the Libertines, the Wrens.......
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes "Awww!~~Jack Kerouac~~

Television:

None. I don't have any reception. Bleh.

Books:

The poetry of E.E. Cummings, Pablo Neruda, Mary Oliver and Rainer Marie Rilke, books best kept in bed, tangled up in the sheets next to you. The prose by Michael Cunningham, A. L. Kennedy, C.S. Lewis, and the authors of all the books from college that are about to collapse my shelves. The standard music rags and whatever is on the back of the cereal box. I believe we HAVE to read to keep our parts and pieces gripped in tight to our own ribs, to stay supple and human, to be whole. I have started writing a book now. It might be absolutely worthless. It might be good. We'll see.

My Blog

It's been rough

Well, this is it.  We had a good run at it, he and I.  It was a quick, passionate, and wholly uninformed fling (the truest sort of love affair), but we're over.  My fetish for basketbal...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Thu, 22 Jun 2006 10:46:00 PST

2005

I might be lagging behind a slight bit on all the fancy bells and whistles of this site.  I just discovered how to see how many times ones blog has been read.  When I saw that mine has been...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Fri, 23 Dec 2005 12:02:00 PST

i lied. i'm sorry. sort of.

I have little choice but to write a short essay about my Saturday night, a celebration of Nicoles birthday (she insists her 23rd-ish) and brief foray outside the limits of loop 12 and into the awaiti...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Tue, 15 Nov 2005 07:45:00 PST

me and the plague

Turns out I'm on a new website.  I'll go ahead and post the link, but warn your that it will take you to the Regional Centers of Excellence for Biodefense and Emerging Infectious Diseases site fl...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Tue, 08 Nov 2005 02:39:00 PST

I'll hold it next time, thanks.

I am the proud owner of a certain hat, given to me by one Waco's local entrepreneurs while I was bartending in college.  If you've ever have driven through the town, you might have noticed a...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Thu, 27 Oct 2005 09:02:00 PST

My paisley punishment

I have heard throughout my lifetime, and somewhat banked on, the promise that time will erase nearly everything.  I did not fully appreciate until last night, that "everything" was to include all...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Hell in a handbasket

Just came across the tenetive band line-up so far for the Austin City Limits festival. Holy. Shit. In a rare burst of advance planning, my friend Nicole and I actually have tickets already. Here is th...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Self Actualization (-ish)

A week in bed had given me time to ponder some of the greater things in life, namely, myself. That's what narcissistic people do when we convalesce - we think about ourselves. I found out some interes...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

some news

I hope this doesn't come across as morose, or melodramatic, because it isn't meant to be. Just wanted to post a note on this website to let my friends know that I'm having surgery on monday at st. pau...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

First installment of favorite songs

I owed my friend Cort a list of my top thirty favorite songs, so I thought I'd post it here as well. I cheated a little bit, because if I wrote down all my past favorites, then I'd have to confess th...
Posted by perfecting leisure on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST