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better than love.

I don't live to please you.

About Me


Please don't take my
sunshine away;
Get to know me.
ClarissaMusic, fashion, photography, concerts, singing, dancing, shopping, being goofy. Your best friend or your worst enemy. Outgoing, sophisticated, independent, down-to-earth, witty, sweet, sarcastic, thoughtful. I'm stubborn, yet sensitive. I'm completely random and spontaneous, so watch out. Try and figure me out, I dare you. Methaporically speaking, it's safe to say that the word violence isn't in my vocabulary. I've learned in life that sometimes it's best to just let things go. If it happens, it's yours. If it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be yours to begin with. I'm petrified of anything that crawls (ie; spiders and cockroaches), needles and clowns. Some of my pet peeves would include smoking, drugsss, armpit stains, chain letters and SKINNY people saying they're fat, get over it. I despise super assuming and controlling personalities. I absolutely HATE being second best, an option, a 'just in case'. If you're gonna do that, might as well walk the other way cause I'm not having it. I'm sick and tired of guys who doesn't know what they want. It's either me ALL the way or nothing at all. I get SO frustrated when guys tell you exactly what you wanna hear not what they really feel. I do not welcome drama in my life, so leave your bullshit at the front door. Plans that fall apart (shoot me). Messages are a waste of time, cause more than likely I won't respond to them. Try it on comments, I'd love you more. I loathe people who stop in the middle of the hallway when I'm 5 minutes away from class. When people stand too close to you (ie; James). I need my space, asswipe...back off. When your best friend turns out to be a backstabber. When people remake old movies and the plot totally changes. People who blow their horn at you the nano-second the light changes to green. No toilet paper in public restrooms. People who talk on their cellphone at the movies, go outside. Having to explain the same thing more than once.
People who don't realize how incredibly lucky they are to live as well as they do when there are so many people in this world living terrible lives beyond their control. I believe that things aren't always what they seem to be, so you ALWAYS have to keep an extra eye out. You might be best friends one year, pretty good friends the next year, don't talk that often the next, and don't want to talk at all the year after that. I believe that the greatest accomplishment in life is to overcome your fears. I believe that we should live each day like it's our last. Live for the nights we won't remember, laugh a little harder, sleep a little later. Because the best things in life are free and it's worth enjoying every minute of it. People live, but people die. "As we strain to grasp the things we desire, the things we think will make our lives better; money, power, fame..we ignore what truly matters. Friendship, family, love..the things we probably already had". I will add you as a friend as long as you're not a complete turd. "Okay, guy in need of a clue. Here's one. Women send signals. That was a brush off. Before you dip into your shallow pool of wit, let me paint us a picture and save us both the trouble. Here's your evening. You are going to slink back off to your buddies, laugh this off, get wasted, go home, and make nice with yourself. But don't be thinking of me, because even your fantasy of me, isn't interested in you". Promises can be broken just as quickly as they are made. . .
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My Interests

Soaking up the sun, laying perfectly adjacent to the waves of the water. Emerald. V-lines and hipbones. winter season. 5 o'clock shadows. Spontaneous events. watching MOVIES. white-sand beaches, lakes, ponds, pools.. pretty much any decent (clean) form of water. waking up early with 20 mins. left to sleep. cold side of a pillow. Hello kitty. girls day out(good times). a challenge. FRIENDS.

I'd like to meet:

Anyone and everyone as long as you're not a creepy 40 yr. old, 250 lbs., hairy guy. No I'm not interested in whipping "it" out for you.

Music:

The Summer Obsession, Fall Out Boy, The Spill Canvas, Hellogoodbye, Panic! at the Disco, LoveDrug, Death Cab for Cutie, Underoath, The Used, Armor for Sleep, Minus the Bear, state of grace, Confide, Matchbook Romance, Emery, Motion City Soundtrack, 311, Hawthorne Heights, Jimmy Eat World, Senses Fail, plus44, Relient K, All-American Rejects, MAE, Thrice, Sugarcult, Taking Back Sunday, The Starting Line, Head Automatica, Maroon 5, Athlete, Avant, Deftones, Terror, Acceptance, Story of the Year, The Killers, Sum 41, Weezer, Lifehouse, Green Day, From Autumn to Ashes, The Academy Is, Less Than Jake, Bowling for Soup, Atreyu, HIM, Silverstein, AFI, Imogen Heap, The Blood Brothers, Goo Goo Dolls, Dashboard Confessional, Finch, Shiny Toy Guns, Hot Hot HEAT, Bright Eyes, Hures, Something Corporate, From First to Last, The White Stripes, Hollywood Undead, WE ARE THE FURY, June, Sublime, Nightmare of You, Poison the Well, System of a Down, Houston Calls, Jack's Mannequin, Norma Jean, Fort Minor, Avenged Sevenfold, Nural, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Robots in Disguise, Paramore, October Fall, Angels and Airwaves, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The Scene Aesthetic, Dirty Sanchez, AMBER PACIFIC, Society's Finest, Jealous Sound, HIM, Simple Plan, ADAIR, Nathan Walters, Charlemagne, Yellowcard, Thursday, The Wreckers, Pennywise, Gnarls Barkley, Atmosphere, EVE 6, Gorillaz, Jason Mraz, The Pack, Ben Bledsoe, Cartel, Kill Hannah, Offspring, Tech N9NE, Bury Your Dead, Radiohead, Depeche Mode, Brand New, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Cute Is What We Aim For, 30 Seconds to Mars, The Postal Service, Funeral For A Friend, Tenacious D, Cobra Starship, Sigur Ros, Bloodhound Gang, Clear Static, Plenty

Movies:

Anchorman, Cable Guy, Pirates of Caribbean, Hills have Eyes, Traffic, Carrie, Eurotrip, Roadtrip, American Pie, 10 Things I Hate About You, Psycho, Scary Movies, Closer, Saw 1 and 2, Sixth Sense, The Ring, Omen, Se7en, Van Wilder, Nightmare on Elm Street, Interview w/ Vampire, Wedding Crashers, Jeepers Creepers, Rosemary's Baby, Edward Scissorhands, The Descent, Exorcist, Ghost Story

Television:

Bedford Diaries, One Tree Hill, Will & Grace, Family Guy, Simpsons, America's Next Top Model, Project Runway, Real World, America's MOST Smartest Model, Laguna Beach, A Shot At Love With Tila, Yo Mama, Pants off, Dance off, Spongebob, Exposed

Heroes:

J.L. Hayes E.L. Mercado Anyone who isn't afraid to be different when everyone else is the same♥

My Blog

A single soul dwelling in two bodies.

Since my last blog was a bad reminder of a person..I thought i'd lighten it up with this one. To all those amazing people, I now call my friends. . . In Kindergarten your idea of a good friend was the...
Posted by better than love. on Fri, 26 Sep 2008 10:26:00 PST

What matters most is that we loved at all.

RIP James Lee Hayes Born in Wilson, North Carolina January 11, 1933-August 3, 2007 I've told you a million things. I've shown you a million things. I've hugged and kissed you a million times. But it'...
Posted by better than love. on Sat, 25 Aug 2007 11:46:00 PST

Quiet things that no one ever knows

Life never ceased to amaze me.Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you hadn't? or Saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the har...
Posted by better than love. on Sat, 16 Dec 2006 08:16:00 PST

What goes around comes around.

People don't change,    it just takes awhile to realize who they really are. . .Fucktart. Love's greatest irony..letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let ...
Posted by better than love. on Thu, 19 Oct 2006 02:01:00 PST

Caution: rough road ahead.

Seniors-a statement. FACT. a way of life.I've been wanting to hear that for so long now. And I finally have the chance and amount of RESPECT that comes with the title. People believe that life is all ...
Posted by better than love. on Tue, 01 Aug 2006 07:13:00 PST

Drum roll please.

Ahh..summertimeA chance to reconcile with long lost friends, get the tan going, and play freeze tag in traffic. "This summer will no doubt be the best one yet. I have a feeling!" pfffft.  &n...
Posted by better than love. on Thu, 15 Jun 2006 10:36:00 PST