Positive, honest, supportive, courteous, respectful, moral, authentic, caring, responsible people (who are drama & drug FREE) who share the same values as mine that will encourage and inspire me to be the BEST me I can be! Must like to laugh, have a sense of humor, and like to have fun too!
AS FOR MEN: I could go on and on about this (I suppose we all could - let's just say I know what I want) I've got 3 non-negotiables: 1) Must HAVE/WANT a relationship with God (HAVE being FAR preferred - of Christian faith), 2) Must WANT to get married, 3) Must WANT to have children (and not have any already). I'm not into casual dating, so if you're just "looking for a good time" you need not apply as I'm not interested. I tend to gravitate to tall men (6'+ preferred), with baby faces and a strong jaw line. Someone who...can express themselves and is comfortable in doing so...is affectionate, both in words and touch...is strongly attracted & drawn to me; who desires me. Someone who will be proud of me and appreciate me...is probably described as being "deep"...if you're known as being a "simple guy"...I'm probably not interested, as I enjoy intelligent conversation, healthy debate, and someone who has some passion...and can appreciate and enjoys the depth to me. Honesty is HUGE for me, so if you're not 100% honest at all times, I'm also not interested. Someone who...is in touch with their emotions, that is capable and comfortable with being vulnerable, so we can have a heartfelt relationship & understanding...but not overly sensitive, as I'd like them to be emotionally stronger than I am...is capable of resolving and dealing with confrontation/conflict (let's be honest, true relationships require the REPAIR aspect if they are going to last)...is compassionate and is able to empathize...has a good work-life balance, but has a higher priority with family first...is responsible in their life choices. Someone who likes to laugh, have fun, smile, and dance! As I said, I could go on and on...but I think that's quite a bit for now. (I know a perfect man/woman does not exist, however I do believe in compatibility and similar values; I don't feel there is any harm in knowing and expressing what you're looking for in a significant other.)