Someone who is confident, intelligent, well read, adventurous. Flexible, able to deal with the unknown, able to deal with changes, open minded. A person who, while they can appreciate the finer things life has to offer, also appreciates the less finer things. No high-maintanance, low self esteem, needy types. We all have baggage, but we don't need to carry it with us wherever we go.
I have somewhat eclectic taste, Mostly jazz (NOT KENNY G), Older rock, Classical.
I have a short list of what I consider "reality check" movies: "Life of Brian" - Monty Python "The Meaning of Life" - Monty Python "Clockwork Orange" - Stanley Kubrick "Brazil" - Terry GilliamPlus, the opening sequence to "Contact" (very humbling).
Just finished reading a few volumes of Ayn Rand, the Sun Tzu, the Lao Tzu, Tom Wolfe, Harlan Ellison, currently working on some Mark Twain and Carl Hiasson.