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Scot McKay here. I'm a professional dating coach and founder of X & Y Communications--a one stop shop for dating and seduction excellence.
After a difficult divorce several years ago, I heard from virtually everyone that "it wasn't my fault" and that "there was nothing I could have done" to have been a better husband. Not accepting a victim's mindset, I adopted an attitude of continuous research into exactly what it is that attracts men and women to one another, and--more importantly--what keeps them together for years.
In other words, what exactly is a "healthy" relationship, and what makes it happen?
This research has been ongoing for over five years to date, and has literally been a life-changer for me. I've experienced the most successful dating life imaginable, culminating in my decision to choose one great woman and spend the rest of my life with her. My new wife Emily and I were married on December 9th, 2006 and have every reason to expect a rich and rewarding life together for many years to come.
What I've learned about men, women and relationships has been so profound and meaningful that I've gone back to my roots as a life coach after a successful management career in the IT world...and X & Y Communications is born.
Life is an adventure that is meant to be shared. Drop me a note and let's see about helping YOU be wildly successful at attracting the opposite sex.

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"If in a relationship, serve notice that you are there by choice rather than by default."
-- Scot McKay
 

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"If you are like me, you already sense that you've just got to BE the best partner possible in order to GET the best partner possible. Otherwise, the only real-world alternative (at best) is to 'settle' for a partner who disappoints you--and vice-versa. Millions of people live this kind of unhappy existence, drowning in pornography or soap operas in a weak attempt to vicariously live a dream which they have squandered. Knowing that real fulfillment is possible in a relationship, my passion is to help you make sure you are not one of the untold masses who 'settle'.&quot
-- Scot McKay
 

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If you are interested in becoming the most successful member of the "dating pool" you can be, drop Emily and I a message or visit us on the Web at www.dating-advice.us .
X & Y Communications exists entirely to help you become the best you can be when it comes to dating and relationships--without having to learn and/or do things the "hard way". It doesn't matter if you are young or old, as yet unmarried, married, divorced or widowed. X & Y Communications can help you maximize your success in preparing for and eventually realizing the ultimate in relationships with a significant other.
I am the author of Deserve What You Want , a book about how to make yourself the best partner you can be in order to attract and keep the kind of person you desire. I don't believe in "settling", and I hope you don't either.
I also have a free booklet called Get What You Deserve, which is yours for stopping by www.dating-advice.us and signing up for our newsletter. Among other pleasant surprises found when you sign up, there's an archive of previous issues in case you want to get caught up.
And then there are also those podcasts we do, aren't there? Jump on that bandwagon below and gather up all the episodes you can carry for free. If you listen and like what you hear, please write a review for us on iTunes .
 
 
 
 
     
Oh...and if you want to learn previously untold secrets about how to drive your date wild by cooking for him or her, don't miss the book we have entitled Cook For Your Date .

 
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My Blog

CLICK WITH HIM Now Available

CLICK WITH HIM Now Available Emily has released her long-awaited advanced program for women.  If you are a woman who is sick of kissing frogs, and ready to meet the RIGHT man for a change--online...
Posted by on Sun, 09 Mar 2008 10:21:00 GMT

Its A Boy!

It's A Boy!John Scot Micajah McKay, Jr. was born on 11/17/2007.  Mom and kid are both healthy and VERY happy.  The pics and the details are here:www.edumckaytion.comRemember...our official b...
Posted by on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:47:00 GMT

New Blog At www.edumckaytion.com

NEW BLOGHey Everyone, it has been a busy month around here.  Among many productive things that have happened, I've launched a new blog.This is like a WordPress blog with a blogroll and it's own U...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Nov 2007 04:23:00 GMT

VIRTUOSITY Released

VIRTUOSITY ReleasedMan, it has been non-stop craziness getting VIRTUOSITY ready for you guys in time for the 9/28 release date.  But it happened on time (and under budget, if you check the web si...
Posted by on Sun, 30 Sep 2007 06:43:00 GMT

VIRTUOSITY Is Coming

VIRTUOSITY Is ComingToday I released the first pre-announcement of the upcoming advanced series.  It will be called VIRTUOSITY.  Having heard from so many of you via email or telephone, I ca...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 22:30:00 GMT

Back From Hawaii With A New Podcast Called "DatingCast"

Back From Hawaii With A New PodcastWe're back from nine days in the Islands.  This time we took the kids with us, which was a blast.  It was nonstop action all the way.  We added a few ...
Posted by on Sat, 21 Jul 2007 21:19:00 GMT

It's A BOY! == Plus, VIDEO Shows And More

It's A BOY! == Plus, VIDEO Shows And MoreEmily and I have found out we're having a SON!  Very cool.  That will be my first son, and his name will be John Scot Micajah McKay, Jr.  Why "M...
Posted by on Tue, 12 Jun 2007 23:15:00 GMT

Back Home From Vacation

Back Home From VacationWell, Buenos Aires and Rio De Janeiro were unbelievable.  We had an unforgettable 9 days, including a side trip to Uruguay of all places.  The people were super cool e...
Posted by on Wed, 16 May 2007 02:48:00 GMT

More News

More NewsWe've got four podcasts and two video shows pending, so we're launching the X-NET.  That's short for "X & Y Communications Worldwide Mediacasting Network".  Besides being able t...
Posted by on Wed, 02 May 2007 21:57:00 GMT

New Discussion Forum / The Chick Whisperer Top 25 On iTunes

New Discussion Forum / The Chick Whisperer Is Top 25 On iTunesI finally got this finished and launched, as announced in today's newsletter. The Deserve What You Want message board is live at: www.dese...
Posted by on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 05:28:00 GMT