I live and die by the following philosophies,,,behind every good man is a great woman...I have never met an ugly person in my life until they opened their mouth...Don't challenge one another. Don't complain against one another. Don't devour one another. Don't envy one another. Don't judge one another. Don't lie to one another. Don't speak against one another.Of course God will forgive me; that's His job...you only regret the things you never do....When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.....Relationships come and go, but friends will last a lifetime. If you love someone so much, but you can't have them, you must learn to let them go and if they come back to you, then you know that it was truely meant to be....Learn to express rather than impress. Expressing evokes a me too attitude while impressing evokes a so what attitude....Society does not lose it's values because of the activities of criminals, it loses its values because of the inactivities of the good people...You become what you surround yourself with -Surround yourself with people that have integrity and are always kind to others...First impressions are helpful and important. Yet they are certainly not everything. A quick first impression can give you a feel for what's going on. Still, there's much substance that lies beneath the surface.Allow your instincts to guide you without letting them dominate you. Do the work and dig deeper before making any long-term judgments or commitments.In presenting yourself, seek to make an excellent first impression. Be sure, however, to also have the depth of substance that will faithfully back up that initial positive impression....Those who are quick to judge, without considering all the facts, often make serious and irreversible mistakes. More often than not, hasty judgments lead to trouble, alienation, anger, frustration and regret.....Pay attention to your first impression. And let that first impression be a starting point rather than a final conclusion....