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About me? Hmmmm, I am a mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, friend of many, enemy of a few, protester, hippie, metal-head, wanna-be artist, lover, fighter, peace-maker, housekeeper, fast-driver, shower-singer, picture-taker, problem-solver, garden-grower, bad-joke-teller, open-minded, stuborn-ass, good-time-havin' woman! I love my life. My family rocks. I have a wonderful, hard working, sexy husband. We have been together over 10 years and married almost 1! We have 3 beautiful, awesome, as close to perfect as you can be little girls who make my life bright! Deidra is hard core & can do ANYTHING. Maggie Rae cracks my ass up EVERYDAY. I love how her brain works. Sophia changes so much, and it is AMAZING to watch my baby grow. I have a step-daughter in Oklahoma whom I love and miss very much.(You sure are turning into a beautiful young lady)I am also very fond of my pets. I have some really great parents & friends. I have the best sister in the whole wide world. Our home is filled w/great tunes, good food, and lots of laughter. We are a very close family who stands up for what we believe in. Things that bother me are: first and foremost, UNFINISHED BUSINESS, people jacking w/my peeps(so quit it!), people who dont believe in global warming(WAKE UP),copy-cats;),bad parents(to humans&animals), bad intentions, racism(we are not our ancestors, we are ALL people, lets live in the NOW), bored cops, our judical system, hell, our government in general(doesnt it say somewhere that the people need to overthrow it when it gets to corrupt?),people who think if you dont support the war you dont support the troops(so untrue), and religious extreemist who can see no way but their own, open your eyes! Who told you that YOU are right? I count on karma, and believe LOVE can fix most everything, except gas prices. If you know me, you know me. If you used to, not much has changed but at the same time, alot has changed, if you know what I mean....When I am an old woman, and I tell my grandchildren my life story, it will be a weird & wonderful & magical one. Life has taken me down many bumpy roads & I am sure there are many more ahead, but it has also treated me pretty good, so far. I am alive and I'm free, that should be enough, shouldn't it. Peace to you. Live long and prosper.

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West Memphis Three: Time for Truth from Brian Quist on Vimeo .FREE THE WEST MEMPHIS 3!(spread the word, wm3.org) NOW! STOP THE WAR stop the war stop the war.Support our TROOPS! BRING THEM HOME. Reduce, Reuse, Recycle! Save our Planet, it is the only home we have! We can do it if we ALL try. Eat right, high fructose corn syrup is not food! Take better care of your children& pets! Plant a tree, Plant a garden, Plant something. Turn off the t.v.& go outside. Question everything and teach the next generation to do the same. Love eachother the best you can.Equal rights for all regardless of our differences!WE ARE ALL JUST PEOPLE. How dull this world would be if we were all the same?


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god, jesus, buddha, mother earth, mother nature, ghandi and all the rest of them to ask who is right.(if we are all gods children, is god a woman?) DEAD PEOPLE: bob marley, elvis, my in-laws(r.i.p.),julius and ethal rosenberg, dimebag, walt witman & einstein. ALIVE PEOPLE: sylvia browne, willie neslon, jimmy buffett, bill maher, charles manson(just curious!), michael moore & phil anselmo. After that, anyone with similar interest or old friends. The West Memphis 3 as FREE MEN. All my "myspace" friends at a big party at the lake;) And you, of course. Your here right now, might as well say hi.
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Music:

Love it, need it, life would be a sad place w/out it. There is more to music, than just music(does that make sense?) You can tell something about people by the music they listen to. So here's some about me! I cant live without PANTERA, Clutch, Tori Amos, Bob Marley, and The Legend Big John Cash. But thats just what I cant live w/ out. I love pretty much all music except that new age christian raido crap. Anything METAL makes me feel like a kid again. 80's hair bands rock my sox off. Beautiful songs & classical pieces make me cry. Real"old school"country rules. Not big on rap, but I do love some Jay Z & 2Pac. I love every single song on this list...(the last 3 are for my sister!)AND HEY YOU GIRLFRIENDS!!! Trouble is dedicated to you, all the women in my life that have "saved" me many a time!

Movies:

Love them. When u have 3 kids, movies are our "dates". We put the girls to bed, & hang out on the couch, & there you go. My list of fav's is sooo long, I look like a total dork writing them all down but I'll try! I love documentaries,funny stuff,scary stuff,old movies,all the classics,disney movies w/my girls,espcially the old ones. Here is a tiny(haha)list:Anything by Mr. tarantino, mr. david lynch, mr. m.night shyamalan, mr. michael moore, or Mr. kevin smith(DOGMA IS THE BEST),A River Runs Thru It,Bubba Hoetep, American History X,Love Song for Bobby Long, The Notebook("our movie")is the best romance movie ever,Fight Club,Magnolia,The Big Lebowski,Eternal Sunshine...,Fried Green Tomatoes,The Usual Suspects,Labrynth, Tombstone,Fear & Loathing,Braveheart, Trainspotting,Lonesome Dove,Casino,Steel Magnolias,The Royal Tenenbaums,Spanglish,all the Godfathers,all the Pirates,all the Excorcist,Legends of the Fall,Son-in-law,The Patriot,Gone with the Wind,Blow,SFW,No Country for Old Men,Neverending Story,Top Gun,The Wall,The X Files,Kalifornia,The Cell,Reality Bites, Silence of the Lambs,Dances with Wolves,Memento,RobinHood, all the Lord of the Rings,There Will be Blood & DEATH PROOF KICKS ASS.Told you, i love movies! Please watch Paradise Lost!It will change the way you look at things.I promise.

Television:

Sopranos is over!!! What ever will I do?(best show ever in the history of the world was sopranos. love me some tony!) I do like the shows on HBO, but will not pay for cable(yea! netflix!), so we rent them and watch them all at one time. WEEDS, DEXTER, BIG LOVE, DEADWOOD. I love to watch stuff on PBS. Used to watch Montel when Sylvia was on:( Yah, I'll admitt, I watch Dr. Phill, he makes me feel more normal with all those freaks on there!Same for supernanny and wife swap. Wheel of Fortune(i am the queen of wheel of fortune...) Jepordy, if I'm up I'll watch SNL. Sometimes watch the CSI's. Reno 911, Chapell Show, I love shows like 20/20, 60minutes, dateline, BBC world news, etc. But I avoid watching the "real" news. Too much negativity just makes me sad.
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Books:

I love to read anything that makes me smarter, makes me laugh, or freaks me out. I have way to many books, but how do you get rid of books? They are stacked everywhere in my house. Anything from the Sweet Potatoe Queens,STEVEN KING is my FAVORITE,H. P. Lovecraft, Dean Koontz,Shel Silverstine,Kinky Friedman(for president!).The Secret,Moon Women, The Book of Dreams, Oh the Places you Will Go, When Will Jesus Bring the Pork Chops(REST IN PEACE GEORGE CARLIN), National Geographic,(I know its not a book, but I read them religously). A childrens book my mom gave me called "I Love u as Much..." I read it to my girls as much as I can & cry everytime(its a mom thing). What to Expect the First Year is a regular,you'd think I'd have it figured out by now, but all my girls are different. I have to read my horoscope everyday or it bothers me.(CANCERS RULE) Silly, I know.
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I love photography books. I like to read cook books & learn cool new stuff to cook. I read almost anything my mom gives me to read. I read alot of what Oprah says. She is usually right about books. I am currently reading A New Earth, and I think it is great.

Heroes:


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My AWESOME MOM,she rocks.I could only hope to be as strong as her one day. My Nanny & Papa & Grandma & Grandpa Arms, both married over fifty years and still love eachother & havent killed eachother. Aunt Amy. My step-mom, you are like the energizer bunny, when everyone else would give up, you just keep going. My so strong girlfriends(ALL OF YOU, i am sure you know who you are!) and all the strong women in my life. Keep on keepin' on Ladies!You have no idea how many times you have been an inspiration to me. Brent W., You rock& your doing it all right! And my HUSBAND, who is also my best-friend, who gave me my happily ever after.He is the best.
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Our soldiers, HATE the war, LOVE & SUPPORT the troops. Anyone doing anything to make this planet a better place. THE WEST MEMPHIS 3, you are all so brave, so innocent, my thoughts are with you. And I have to include Dimebag Darrell & Johnny Cash but arn't they everyones hero? The Freeway Blogger, you rock man! Tori Amos, what a woman. Deidra Vee, she grew out her hair for a year to donate it to cancer patients. This kid is amazing. Gena you are an AWESOME sister, you are a great aunt to our girls, you are more than you know to me and mine, so i just felt compeled to put you down here w/my hero's. Love you poncho, or is it laquinta???

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Posted by a fly on your wall on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:09:00 PST

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Posted by a fly on your wall on Mon, 19 May 2008 09:57:00 PST

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