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I am an extremist. Very passionate and assertive. I grew up in Miami with many friends from all over the world.I am a songwriter/guitarist since I was 6 years old and a person who feels and expresses completely. For me there is never an excuse not to, I couldn't imagine not saying exactly how I feel about a situation I am experiencing. Whether it's in my songs or a conversation.
I also write poetry of all kinds. Whether heartfelt and quixotic or the rebel, decadent anarchist against the fucked up establishment the world can sometimes be - they are all aspects of the extremes I am.
I believe in being romantic. I hate the word "Fairytale". That is something sheep came up with. Be a herder. Besides, that is who I am, so I don't have a choice. I do think that is the strongest a man can be... to let himself be who he is. Strength isn't in some macho handbook. I tend to see beauty that most people seem to be unaware of. To recognize what beauty really means in someone and protect and take care of that at all costs is strength. It has to be motivated by real feelings & connection or else you are in love with being in love, trying to fill a void in you and that is sad.
I have never participated in relationships that are full of hating and fighting. There should never be an excuse to hurt the one you love. I just don't get that at all, and most people seem to do it. Communication and not being afraid to be vulnerable to each other is a must. Whether it is four days into it or four years. The most important thing in your life is the one you love and should be shown everyday, not on holidays once a year because a calendar says you should feel that way today.
However, don't mistake kindness for weakness whether in relationships, career or on the street corner. I am the sweetest, most loving man on the planet, however suffocate me or try to tear my goodness down in anyway and I can be the most aggressive, rebellious fuck you have ever imagined. I'm simply a mirror, show me what to reflect.
Just because a man is sweet and not an asshole, does not mean he should be passive and a door mat... no one wants that. You can be strong, in control and the man she needs without being an asshole.
Life is simple, people make it hard. Love is even simpler, when you are wide open.