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** Hmmm.....let's see....what do you want to know about me? Those that know me best call me "Betty", "B", "Beh-eee", "B-Syde", "Fresh Lady B", "Bet", and those closest to me call me "Bets"....regardless of the nickname, ev'ry one of 'em has a special place in my heart, cuz they've all played a crucial role in my life, at some point or another, which has shaped me into who I am today.I've had to learn the difference between being in a RELIGION and being in a RELATIONSHIP with The Savior. Annnd, I KNOW that God wants me to be REAL with our relationship & not be phony & church--hatty, just cuz I'm saved. I know right from wrong and I know good from bad. I KNOW THE WORD and what it says & what it commands me to do.....I have BALANCE like I never had before, so I know my limits. Know that it's okay to be ME. 100% real, no bull-isssh, nuttin' but love 4 ya bay-bay!! BTW, yes, you're gonna hear me cuss from time to time, you may catch me with a martini in my hand, you may hear me laughin' about some shady stuff, but if you look INSIDE the heart, you'll see that I'm just a down to earth chick that's been thru it & came out with the victory. I don't front; I am honest & wear my emotions & feelings on my sleeve. I cry, I laugh, I love and I learn. Life sometimes brings some crazy turns, but it's all good, cuz I know....that I'll never have more than my share, or more than I can bear. I've had to learn that EVERYONE can't be your friend & people are only going to change if they want to better themselves...I'm TOTALLY, full-on content in who I am, give props where they are due and will give you my last if you're in need. My weaknesses and emotions?? Got 'em in check. My friends & family, got them where they should be. My past & present...completely in perspective. Finally, I know WHO's I am & am at total peace in knowing! SOooooo, don't U trip on me & U let me be ME & I'll most deff letchu' be U.
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***I don't know dude. What interests me the most is KNOWLEDGE. School House Rock said that 'knowledge is power'. I've been liberated & now I'm finally able to put that creative mind, that I've been blessed with, to work. My husband & I are launching our dream; ABC Athletics, Inc., in a few months! Our vision: "Effecting The Generations" through athletics. The most interesting part of the past six months of my life is that I've found, truly, knowledge is POWER!! And when you have knowledge, like my mom always said...."NOBODY CAN TAKE AWAY WHAT IS IN YOUR MIND"....HAlleluuuujah!! ***
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Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm......that would be interesting!I've now been back in touch with my heartbeats from San Diego...and I'm soooo lovin' this, cuz I'm gettin' back to the people that mean the most to me...DONT get it TWISTED BOO...I loves my Chi-Town peeps & will miss ya'll. There's only a few of you that will stay for the long ride of life & I'm thankful for that....BUT to be totally honest, I can't wait to meet the NEW peeps that are coming across our paths. Anyhow, It's called "The Clique" baby...get in where ya fit in!!
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Music:

***** So, I grew up on the classics...Stones, Beatles, some ol' southern fried rock, some classic country...but over the last 20 yrs, I've grooved primarily to R & B, some rap & hip hop. I mainly listen to lyrics. Hate that nuevo/techno shiaatt, but I'll hang if I have to. I love the 80's & 90's music...and especially nowadays, I still love my BMK~that's Brian McKnight...always will love Mary J., Brandy, Monica, Xscape, MC Lyte, and the ORIGINAL RAPPERS like Doug E Fresh, Slick Rick, RUN DMC, LL Cool J, Kool Moe Dee, NWA, EZ-E bay-bay....The DOC, DJ QUIK, Snoop, etc. & on the flip...I like lots of the new gospel music...it quenches my spirit...and soul! And yesss...my life is MUSIC & LYRICS....and although there's not too many DEEP lyrics nowadays, I sho'DO like some of the new stuff that my kids be groovin' to...but for real, I'm straight up 90's dude.
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MC Lyte "Ruff Neck" Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZROqetjPf5E

Movies:

My all time favorites....is the original Grease from 1978 *
MyHotComments * ...but then the brat packs of the eighties....like Pretty In Pink, Breakfast Club, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Wierd Science....and wait, the ultimate fave movie, is "BRIDGES OVER MADISON COUNTY"~if you ever really WATCH that movie, there's a greeeeat love story in there, but if you don't know about love & sacrifice, then you won't see it. And, more recent movies like The Notebook, Love & Basketball, Evening... ya digg?**

Television:

Tivo is a GOOD, WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, FANTABULOUS thing....and that's all I have to say.
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Books:

I don't read TOO many novels anymore, but when I did, I used to read Terry McMillan, Frank Peretti, Left Behind Series. But the books that I DO read now are spiritual food...I'm spongin' up all this knowlege cuz I's gots ta be right to reach the peoples. *******

Heroes:

Jesus Christo. If it wasn't for His love, then I would still be doing the same ol' stupid stuff...but GOD sent him for Moi (and U-2). Man, I think back to growing up in the 80's & 90's in San Diego....how HE KEPT ME in the midst of it all...it's so awesome~even spared me from death...and He has never left me, nor forsaken me, or judged me, or denied His love....So, yeah, He's my hero!
Myspace Layouts Rev. Dr.Martin Luther King, Jr. is another true hero. If it weren't for him, his wife, The Freedom Riders & all the other young people and old alike, that suffered, struggled and stood for something that mattered, then I wouldn't be able to live my life as it is today. I've been blessed in a way that you can't really understand!! If U ever get a chance 2 go to Atlanta to see MLK's memorial, your heart will be changed forever. Trust.
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My Blog

Nuggets of Wisdom

These nuggets may serve as soul food for some of you...for me, that's my diet right now while we're in transition unto our "NEW BEGINNING".  I sure need some sustenance & will most deff get i...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Wed, 14 May 2008 09:59:00 PST

Goin’ Goin’ Back-Back....

Heyyyy blogg sneakers!  Whadduuup YO?This is gonna be a quick one for you....maybe you're tired of hearing that we're leaving.  Maybe it makes you sad.  Maybe it makes you haterish.&nbs...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Thu, 01 May 2008 08:55:00 PST

Alicia Keys Lyrics & Wisdom

While I was drivin' home yesterday, I was straight jammin' with my girl, AKeys.....and I was bumpin' this song... "Lesson Learned".  (Alicia Keys featuring John Mayer) I was burned but I call it ...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Sun, 09 Mar 2008 07:57:00 PST

Another lesson in life!

While being lectured by Suze Orman today, I was faced to look in the mirror at myself.  While looking in that mirror, I began to let the tears fall.  Because it was in that very moment that ...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 01:59:00 PST

The "JUDAS" Test (I posted already as bulletin)

Know what?  The Judas Test is a mugg...but I'm learning that I have to be able to PASS it or else I can't move fwd.Enjoy~  The Judas TestTGIF Today God Is First Volume 2, by Os Hillman02-28...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 06:00:00 PST

Old Friends

This is gonna be a quick one.  But, let's talk about "old friends" today, class! I've heard so many cliches over the years about 'old friends....are the best friends', or 'friends are the family...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Tue, 24 Jul 2007 07:47:00 PST

Check out this video: 7 Day Theory of Tupac's Death

Posted By:SPYDA BALLINGet this video and more at MySpace.com...
Posted by It's SO not about ME on Sun, 01 Oct 2006 09:40:00 PST