You need to either be attached yourself, or be someone who understands that life has no "black-and-white" categories and is willing to explore a friendship with a man who is attached and has no intention of leaving that relationship.I like SMART girls! (as in intelligent -- but smart-ass is cool too!) I don't care how tall you are or your body type -- although I confess I love Latinas with great smiles!I like a person who likes to hang out, make it up as we go along, just enjoy being together.