Handsome Rod !!

Well, lets see I guess you are wondering about lil old me I guess I will start at the beginning. I am the oldest and I have no kids. I am the oldest out six kids. I am sure you read that from my page. I am 32, I am single , I have a GODSON , But I do not have any kids of my own. I think I have a good job and make a okay living. I am a Corrections Officer and a member of the National Guard out of Richmond, VA. I have a little college in law enforcement and I am hoping to return from Iraq to continue you on with my education so that I may make the big bucks like you . I do not have any large bills are crazy car notes to pay. Am for the most part debt free, and looking to get a home for myself and start on looking to retire a little ahead of plans.I am not a hard person to get along with I see myself as a person with little to no drama. I like my simple life when it comes to problems. I mean in the past I had a few problems that just wrecked my life and I swore from that point on to make the best of what I have in life and try to do what I can to help the average good guy out when I can. I like to go out and hang at he club when the times call for me to cut loose but I do not find myself there every weekend. I am somewhat of a home body because I am not seeing anyone right now but that would be deferent case if I did. My dad says’ I am complicated ( ha ha ha ), My mom says’ I am to forgiving. They say this because when it comes to people treating me wrong and getting on my bad said, I am not the one to hold that over a person and make them feel bad for what they have done. I would say I was there friend in a time of need, but that would be it, meaning I would not want to deal with them as I did in the past if they had ever crossed me, but I guess if they was a rent check away from the street I would give them a hand. I guess I always looked out for the under dog, My dad said that would be the end of me, for that one fault, but hey its just me. Guess you see why my parents say what they say huh ( ha ha ha ). I do have a evil side and my temper can get out of hand when I have really been done wrong BUT!! It takes a great deal of shiting on me to get me to that point, and at most times before I get to that point I would take off and leave the situation, come back and look at it in a calmer light.I want a lot out of life I just see it out of reach and I try so hard to get to it,. I am not asking for much in life. I just want to be able to have a family of my own and a well paying job to take care of me and my family. I would love to move to a state with a fare education system for my kids if ever I had any and nice weather year round. I want a home that reflects the hard work I did to make the house payments on it. I want my home to have a large front yard and a acre of land in the back. I want the home to be inviting. I would leave most of the house design to my wife and 20% to myself. So I might be able to make a office space or wreck room, a enter sanctum if you will ( ha ha ). I would like to be able to take trips once a year at minimum . I love to have pets but I am not sure of what kind… Cat, dog, etc … I am not sure. But all in all make my children proud of there dad and my wife feel she has made a good choice, and never regret the day we met.Now as far as what kind of woman I a looking for, hmmm that is a tuff one for me. I will go with brains first. I would like to met a woman that has her own take on thing and and make choices on her own without feeling it would be a bad choice, I guess what I am saying is… she has the know how to get things done for the interest of both of us. I would love for her to think in the future and know how to manage the now. I should hope she wants more than anything to be well educated and have time in her life for thoughts of a family and knows what it means to have a family. I would love to know she came from a well rounded life and friends, meaning she is a lady at most times and a party animal at others. She can hang wit the guys but love to stay pretty and knows that it is okay for us to have other friends to hang with we do not have to share the same ones. I would hope she knows how to make love and can tell me what it is that she would like for me to. Ummmmmm, do to her if she is not getting the max out of the sex life ( ha ha ha). I love a lady that likes to laugh, I mean really laugh, she should know how to get silly at times, I mean it is okay to act like a goofy, life is not always about what people think of you, she should know that and clown it up once in a while. I think it is so sweet to have the girl of my dreams call me on cold or rainy nights and ask me to please come over and be with her cause she is feeling lonely and needs me. I love woman that are into that sappy love thing 50% of the time. I am playful so I like to go out to parks and walks, sports events and stuff, so I hope that she could do the same from time to time. I am also very playful in the bed room as well ( ha ha ha ). Now as far as looks goes I am not locked on one or the other. I guess it is just somin in a face or a smile and look in the eyes that will make me just have to have that woman, I know it sounds low but I am not into big woman… I mean thick yes, slightly heavy… I might can do. I just want a woman that can get up and go to the gym and work out a little and knows that she does not have to shop at the big girl store all the time. Oh and as far as dress goes, that is not a big thing for me, as anyone finds out, I wear some crazy shit from time to time.Well, I guess that is just about it. I cant think of anymore stuff you might want to know about me. I am sure I gave you enough info than you might have wanted at one time but hey, I am a open book and I love people to find me easy to read !! I guess I pore myself out on paper cause it comes easy to me, but I am this talkative in person as well. I hope that I got you thinking and a great deal of questions came up from reading this. I also hope that I shaded a little light on the person I am and soon, the greater person I can become. I am not trying to make the world mind I would just like to have a nice spot in the sun. I hope to hear from you and all this info did not make you think twice about coming to page and meeting someone like me ( ha ha).