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Melissa

I am here for Friends

About Me

I may be a little crazy, but there is never a dull moment. But seriously, I am an average person, with the same issues as everyone else, but I'm honest about mine. I was widowed at 31 with a 3 month old baby. I am just tying to have fun like everyone else.I am thankful for everything I have experienced in my life. Things don't always work out as planned, but the show must go on. I look forward to many more great things in my life. My friends and family are very important, most of all my son Nolan. He is the reason for all I do. But I have to celebrate this life I'm living and make new friends.I know too well that you never know when your number will be up and you will be taken away from this life. I tell those close to me how much they mean to me every time I talk with them. The last thing you say to or do for one you love may really be the last. Make it count!I never thought that @ 35 I'd be widowed and lose my mother- both accidently and too younge. This wasn't my plan, but I have to play the hand I'm dealt. I'm grateful that I still have my father after his stroke, my father on law after his cancer, my nephew after being born premature, my sister after her blood clots . . . and that's just my closest family. They could have all died, but they didn't. So to all my friends, I love you, I appreciate all you do for me, I don't want to lose anyone else, I would miss you! Let's all do what we can to live a long, happy life, ok?

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Any cool people, you can't have too many good friends. Any parents of toddlers in the area or people with similar interests. Old friends or new, men or women. Fun people who are real, no bullshit drama. Honesty is important. I have a brain- let's talk. I am not looking for a boyfriend, or a date even, so thanks, I am flattered, but you are wasting your time hitting on me. I have met a great guy and am looking forward to 2009 with him. Dave is great, I am glad I gave him a chance and have gotten to know him. Thanks Wendy.

My Blog

great song


Posted by on Tue, 26 May 2009 21:10:00 GMT

a little therapy


Posted by on Sun, 24 May 2009 19:33:00 GMT

Lost generation/20 year olds

This is from the perspective of someone who is 20 now, aka a member of the lost generation.  This is so simple, and so brilliant.  I just thought it was cool, hope you do too.
Posted by on Thu, 14 May 2009 13:08:00 GMT

Life ain't always beautiful

but it's a beautiful ride.great song I just added to my playlist here.  Go listen!yes, music is my therapy.for those who don't know, my mother died in an accident saturday april 11th.she only had 58 y...
Posted by on Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:16:00 GMT

is this me?

I was born 09/11/1973 so I am . . . Myspace Chinese Astrology Myspace Zodiac Graphicsclick on the links after to find yours.  Does this describe me? 
Posted by on Wed, 01 Apr 2009 14:27:00 GMT

Happy St. Patricks Day!

May the most you wish for Be the least you get May your pockets be heavy and your heart be light May good luck pursue you each morning and night May you always have work for your hands to do. May your...
Posted by on Tue, 17 Mar 2009 09:21:00 GMT

can u name the movie?

These things are good: ice cream and cake, a ride on a Harley, seeing monkeys on a tree, the rain on my tongue, and the sun shining on my face. These things are a drag: dust on my hair, holes in my sh...
Posted by on Fri, 06 Mar 2009 17:18:00 GMT

new song

NICKELBACK LYRICS...."If Everyone Cared"From underneath the trees, we watch the skyConfusing stars for satellitesI never dreamed that you'd be mineBut here we are, we're here tonightSinging Amen, I, I...
Posted by on Wed, 25 Feb 2009 19:35:00 GMT

Check out this event: PsychoMagnet with Ashes To Ashes

Hosted By:PsychoMagnetWhen:Friday, February 27, 2009Where:RPM's Rock ClubBridgevilleDescription:PsychoMagnet's first show of 09 with great friends Ashes To Ashes. Cover is $5.00.We hope to see you all...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:37:00 GMT

vacation 1/27-2/7

I am on vacation from tuesday 1/27 til sat 2/7.  So if you want anything important you will have to call me.  Don't be sad if I don't reply to anything you say or do here because I don't plan on check...
Posted by on Mon, 26 Jan 2009 14:12:00 GMT