1) ...preferably (but not exclusively): a woman who shares my leftist political views & values, & who can further whet my appetite for community activism: and (again, preferably, but not a "deal breaker" is a vegetarian;
2) ...a woman who has a comparable appetite for both the Appolonian and Dionysian aspects of life. I've long held that one's nobly academic and crudedly hedonistic sides are just two parts of a greater whole- or oneness- and that there is no need to avoid indulging oneself in earthly delights. An entire day devoted to nothing but the libido can be as meritworthy as one spent reading from the works of Shakespeare or Goethe. It all depends on how fully and honestly a concept is pursued.
3) ...FRIENDS IN GENERAL, free & original thinkers who like live music, political discourse (helpful but not mandatory), the outdoors, healthy foods, and a nice occasional buzz...