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*~Minamalist~*

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About Me

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when there right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." — Marilyn Monroe[LOVEMYFLASH][/LOVEMYFLASH]

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A mass of contradictions. I grew up around a lot of strange circumstances. I’ve had to overcome some obstacles in my life and have been doing a lot of restructuring the last few years. I’ve become somewhat of a minimalist on this journey of self-discovery. Once the negativity was out of the way, I was finally able to just figure myself out and make positive choices for my life. Basically I’m just a young woman comfortable with who I am. I know what I like and don’t like. I'm random....Very random. But at the same time I’ve got my feet planted on the ground. I work hard to uphold stability in my life but know my limits with monotony. I love to cuddle. I am affectionate with my friends and family. This life is short and it’s important to let the ones you love know what they mean to you. I’m genuine (sometimes to much for my own good and I’m completely aware of the fact that some would perceive me as naive) but don’t get it twisted. I just know who I am and don’t try to be anyone else. So I’m very protective of that genuinity and I don’t just let anyone in. These days I have a tendency to gravitate towards sincerity and repel from pretentiousness and sarcasm. I try not to overestimate or underestimate people because you just never know what lies beneath. I’m like every other normal person out there that’s been burned before and afraid to get hurt again but that never stops me from opening up my heart to the people I truly care for. When I love, I love completely. I don't hold back. I hold my dreams, my convictions, my opinions, my faith and beliefs very close. I believe keeping the balance between these things is the key to happiness and sanity in this crazy life. I’m not impressed by material things. I find pleasure in simplicity. Laughter between friends, breezy summer nights, a glass of red wine, intimate conversations, music, art, the occasional video game, and my silly little dog, etc. So yea, I can be a lot to take in but don’t be scurd. I’ve been known to get crunk here and there. And all in all, once you get to know me I think you’ll find, I’m sweeter then sugar and when it rains I melt.

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My Blog

saint pricholas-and the complicated nature of self distructiveness.

Why do i allow u to get under my skin? Why do i crucify myself to win? Why do i paralyze when u call? Why do i always lose control? Why do u always seem to know exactly when to strike? Why cant u just...
Posted by on Tue, 21 Jul 2009 20:59:00 GMT

note to self

chicken sausage is not ur friend. Yuk.
Posted by on Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:05:00 GMT

fortune cookie

everyone feels lucky for having u as a friend.
Posted by on Sun, 10 May 2009 17:13:00 GMT

Those rare occassions.

Lisa and I had a conversation yesterday. Now I consider myself to be a very optimistic young woman. But Im also very realistic and unfortunately the reality is that when it comes to the relationships ...
Posted by on Mon, 04 May 2009 07:00:00 GMT

Mothers know.

It was almost three years ago. We were in the middle of her beautiful modern kitchen in her new condominium. I was standing there sobbing over another loser that broke my heart. She looks me in the ey...
Posted by on Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:45:00 GMT

score 19 and higher

how could something as frivolous as a number be so important that i would lose sleep over it? All of a sudden numbers are taking over my life? Threatening my security. A damn number. It has come to th...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Apr 2009 13:39:00 GMT

Mina aka the human crash test dummie.

oct 24th 2008...almost died in yet another horrific car wreck...thats about 6 complete total losses under my belt. how i get to walk away from things like this is both mind blowing and supernova. that...
Posted by on Thu, 26 Feb 2009 21:36:00 GMT

just taking a deep breathe before the blessing

 it changes again.r u ready? will you overload?don't you worry. there's never that perfect moment that most seem to wait for. accept that it comes and goes all to quickly.appreciate the rare presence ...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Feb 2009 21:24:00 GMT

love is a losing game


Posted by on Sat, 06 Dec 2008 06:23:00 GMT

damage control

a dam with small cracks throughout. each leak just waiting for its turn to erupt. pressure keeps building behind that damn wall. the water eventually bursts out at the tenderest point. and the flood e...
Posted by on Tue, 28 Oct 2008 02:51:00 GMT