I'm kind of antisocial. Not in a mean way, it's just that most people bore me or annoy me, or a bit of both.So if you're not boring or annoying then fine, send me a note/request etc... However, if you are (or aren't sure, which probably means that you are), then save your fingers the trouble of clicking "add to friends" and save me the time and aggravation of denying your request.