A smart, sexy, funny man without excessive baggage. Or if one does have a lot of baggage (and, really, who doesn't at this point), he must know how to manage it and learn when and where to store it away, taking it out only when necessary. A man who knows how to cook, appreciates good wine, has a couple good tatooes, is sensitive, successful in whatever he loves to do, respects all people, is kind to animals, is not racial or biased, not religious, not a Republican, has a hot body and is a great lover. Oh, and not one who heavily pursues me only to drop me because he can't deal with intimacy. I don't have the time to deal with those kind of men.