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Wendel

Wendel...

About Me

Well let's see. I'm a cancer survivor, a mom of 2 fantastics boys and a wife to an incredible man. I love my dogs like they are humans. I love Jesus with all my heart and I thank Him everyday that I am still here to be all of the things I listed above. I love the friends that I have. It is a small group, so it is like family and we are very close. I want to find and keep in touch with old friends. Life is way to short to loose contact with the friends that have made an impact on my life. So if you are reading this and you are an old friend please contact me I would love to hear from you. Leave me a comment or message me and I will try to get back to you as soon a I can.

My Interests

I love being with my family. Laughing so hard it hurts. kissing my Jake. A good romantic movie, you know the kind that makes say you awe. All my true friends. I love them all with everything that I have. My boys who surprise me on a daily basis. Going to the lake and forgetting about life, just being in the moment and thanking GOD for all that HE has given me. Surviving Cancer. A nice ice cold beer every now and then on a really hot Arizona day is great.As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.~anonymous
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IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying from cancer).I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's" More "I'm sorry's." But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it .. . live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!! Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what. Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us. Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with , and what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally. I hope you have a blessed day.

Music:

Spray Paint Heros, Jordin Sparks, Warsaw, Pink, Chris Daughtry, Peace Deceased, Mary's Danish, Old Smashing Pumkins, Kenny Chesney,Dashboard Confessional, Keith Urban Well Most Country. I love almost all music. If it sounds good I will most likely listen to it. Jordin Sparks and Chris Richardson

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Movies:

Notebook, Without a Paddle, Tommy Boy, Benchwarmers, Young Frankenstein, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest,Forest Gump, Pirates of the Carribean, Anything with Jack Black or Chris Farley, I love scary movies and watching them in the dark and being so scared that every noise you hear freaks you out.

Television:

Most Reality show like American Idol and Survivor(I know I'm a dork). CSI, I love DOG the BOUNTY HUNTER and the first 48. Being a recovery drug addict I love Intervention. All the hospital shows on TLC.

Books:

The Bible!!!!!

Heroes:

Jesus Christ. My Night & Shinning Armor who is my husband Matt. He took care of me and the boys when I had Cancer. I can also say that I am so extremely proud of my best friend Tammy. We have been friend for 28 years and what she has accomplished in her life is one of the most incredible things. I have to say she is my biggest female hero.

My Blog

Treatment update

Ok, So as you all know I went to a number of Dr's on Tues and we got great news from one and bad news from another.  The radiologist (Dr Trooper) who by the way is amazing told us that ...
Posted by Wendel on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 09:39:00 PST

Stage 4 Melanoma

..> Body: Ok I had a moment that I feel good enough to write all of you. First.......OMG I can't even express the feeling that I have from all of you that don't even know me. How you have all com...
Posted by Wendel on Mon, 03 Mar 2008 12:37:00 PST

Stage 4 Melanoma

..> Body: Ok I had a moment that I feel good enough to write all of you. First.......OMG I can't even express the feeling that I have from all of you that don't even know me. How you have all com...
Posted by Wendel on Mon, 03 Mar 2008 12:38:00 PST

JORDIN’S NEW YEARS WISH....PLEASE READ

This was written by Jordin for her first Charity Event.  Thanks for taking the time to read it and I hope you will dontate. Love you all, Wen     JORDINS NEW YEARS WISH! Current mood: ...
Posted by Wendel on Sat, 05 Jan 2008 08:54:00 PST

Pissed off!!!!!

I was filling out some of my interest and I got to thinking about some things.  Like who I'd like to meet.  This might sound really wierd but I would like to meet the two guys that held my b...
Posted by Wendel on Tue, 09 May 2006 10:20:00 PST

Best Son in the World

I have the best son in the world.  If you don't think so I will tell you right now.  He is 18 and loves me and isn't afraid to tell EVERYONE that he does.  He also is in one of the BEST...
Posted by Wendel on Thu, 04 May 2006 09:29:00 PST

Spray Paint Heros

The music you are hearing is from my sons band the Spray Paint Heros.  As you can hear they ROCK!  Go to their myspace and download their music....
Posted by Wendel on Thu, 27 Apr 2006 09:20:00 PST