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Shade

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About Me

I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. The function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them. I shall use my time to live the day.I have been a Cowboy, Firefighter/Paramedic, Dolphin Guide, Boat Captain, an always an out of work actor. I am not tame and never plan to be. Routine makes me sad and restless.I am intensely romantic and passionate. Creative and expressive with my life. Honest, open compassionate and understanding.I try to improve my life daily thru health, education and laughter. This does not mean I am excessive with any of this except for the laughter. I will be the first to sit naked on the beach with a bottle of wine eating chocolate cake with my hands. Finishing with a cold beer and cigar.I am overcome with wonder lust and when I travel overseas it is by a backpack, no advance reservations, train hopping from city to city. I can spend hours and hours in silence while making my way thru galleries and museums. And if need be I will take a bath in the local lake and dry myself in the warm sun. I like to sit in small cafe in Paris and drink coffee, Drink scotch on the rocks after fervent sex.Indulging in pints of beer with fine cigars,feeling the hand of a women caress my arm.

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It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive.It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful be realistic remember the limitations of being human.It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes.”It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments."Oriah Mountain Dreamer"

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