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The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It...Through my research and personal experience, I've found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are:? Mistake #1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure"Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.
Too much physical contact, especially in public.
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.
The next 3 are far deadlier, but less obvious... and it's important that you learn what they are and how to avoid giving them off.But before I show you how to do that, let's talk about mistake #2:? Mistake #2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional SideMany women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected.Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that...? Mistake #3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential"A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how.......If you know how to use your body language AND communication correctly, you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great looking guy that you got to know.Sharing How You
Feel Too Early With HimAnother huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they feel too early on.Listen...Attractive, single, successful men are rare.They get a LOT of attention from women.Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.The signals men send have 4 main levels:1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction2) Emotional: Whether or not he's emotionally available3) Physical: If he's attracted to you... and for what reasons4) Love State: If he's open to building and growing a relationship in the futureThe funny thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident.MISTAKE #6: Relying On
Your Natural Ability To
Judge A Man's CharacterPeople aren't easy to figure out.Especially men.From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.But you can only see these secret communications if you know what to look for.Women communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're first getting to know a man.They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something more serious.Men are different.Men generally communicate with sarcasm, humor, cockyness and other indirect displays of status.VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship.Aside from their sexual interests, men send very indirect signals about where they're at.If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong message.Getting the wrong messages from men causes women more pain and heartache than any other issue around.You can avoid this pain if you learn to indentify a good man from a bad one.MISTAKE #7: Expecting A
Relationship To Make You HappyA mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled.And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.But those are the exceptions, not the rule.Nothing says Run! to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren't exactly the most healthy, loving, nurturing people out there.So let me be clear...I think it's important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether it's dating, a relationship, whatever.But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her.It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either...If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless.Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation.But you have to know how to create this situation with a man... and it rarely happens by accident.MISTAKE #8: Trying To Convince
Him To Like You Or Love YouWhat do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like... but he's just not that interested or isn't as serious?Right! They try to convince the man to feel differently.YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN FEELS WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!.They're always complimenting women who don't like them and buy them gifts.Women like the behavior sometimes, but it NEVER makes the woman like the man.She might enjoy what she gets out of it, but it doesn't change the way she FEELS about him.When a man just isn't interested, women will try and chase, compliment, convince and do their best to change his mind with logical and rational approaches.Bad idea.MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
What To Do In Each Type Of SituationI know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you.And if you don't know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him and flirting, or trying things you think will make him want you, he won't help!If you don't know what to do in each situation, you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HelpThis is the biggest mistake of all.This mistake keeps women from EVER having the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want.I know, women don't like to make theirself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.Hey, I've been there myself.i hope to meet a man that i will be able to love, as well as someone who'll love me in return. But for right now, what i need most of all is a "best friend", more than anything right now, & maybe see what happens
I'd like to meet someone who's a romantic, cares about family including his own, will stand by my side through thick & thin, & someone who'll just love me for just me.Rascall Flatts & Carrie Underwood
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