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Cody

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About Me

It is always interesting to see / read what people thank of themselves. Or at least I think so. My life has changed so much just in last couple of months not to mention since I first created a myspace page. I personally have changed not just in who I am but what I believe, how I feel, how I love, and look at life. My heath physically and mentally has changed for better and for worse in a rollercoaster of events. Each day I live I learn a bit more about what I or Who I am and what I want and don't want to change about me. I have met so many friends and acquaintances and just people in general that have affected my own point of views in the last year that I feel blessed to have not only learned from them but to have had such an experience. And now here I am standing metaphorically speaking at a crossroad just when I thought I had already made such a huge choice in coming out. I find myself trying now to decide which direction to go both ways will take me far from where I am now but each will have there own series of events and there own crossroads. Yet which road will I take? I still enjoy meeting new people and hearing about there own lives and experiences and I get along with almost everyone. I can tell now that my view of beautiful is a bit broader then most yet overlaps from what some will find beautiful and other do not. I have learned that what I believe today may not be what I believe tomorrow. But I still stand strong in what I do believe today. I also know I have a lot to do and a short time to do it and wont be able to do it all. But by no means does that mean I plan at any time on giving up on doing any of them because life is full of opportunities and given the choice I would rather live my life trying to do some of the things I want and enjoy the experience of getting the chance to do them then regret not trying any of the things I wanted and hate the life I have lived. So there you have it a small blip of who, what and where I am in my life of 33 years on earth. To know me is but a privilege as to know you would be too.

My Interests

Camping/Outdoors, Cars, Computers, Shopping, Travel I love to get out hike and explore new areas I have never been before. There is so much to see and do. I would just about try anything. And I say just about because I don't know for sure I would try it until I am faced with it. But I am defiantly open to try anything. I also like to hunt and fish, work on old cars or just tinker with things.These are some pictures I took in February of ’06 in Silver Falls State park. I did a lot of thinking on this hike. You can check out some of my Fav. Vid's by cliking on Videos under my photo. Now what kind of gay man would I be if I didn’t have a few hot men on my site. They do interest me too. Plus I must include my true pleasure KISSING. For me nothing is hotter then watching a couple of guys swap spit. Except of course when I’m swapping spit with someone. Cody Benson --
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A master of sexual gratification

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I'd like to meet:

I want to meet people who want to live life not just live. Have some goals / ambitions in life and are willing to try to achieve them not just have them.
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Music:

I love all kinds of music, classical, classic, alternative, rock, rap, country, opera, dance, techno... Hay if it's good I will listen to it and if its not I won't. & I don't care if there political, religious or any other views are different then mine I will still listen to them if I like there music. I live in America and everyone here is entitled to there own views and beliefs and it doesn't need to be aligned with the majority regardless what the media try's to make you believe. As far as radio goes I am addicted to 94.7 FM in PDX. You can listen them on line at www.947nrk.comLucky Man! Enrique Iglesias Thrills Gay Fan
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Movies:

With movies It’s a lot like music, I like to watch all kinds, I am big on foreign films, action, drama, science fiction and so on. I am with blockbuster .. and see about two movies a week.

Television:

Don't really watch TV anymore I keep myself busy with other stuff and when I do sit down to relax I may watch one of the movies I get from blockbuster ... However I do get the series Queer as Folk from block buster and I'm total into that show. And I was into Prison Break and all the CSI shows, Survivor and Amazing race, but now I am always doing something when these shows are on so now I just watch the DVD's, read or something else.

Books:

Love a good fiction or series' books. Read all the Harry Potter books and loved them all. I read magazines and a bit here and there in the paper when I get it. self improvement books... Oh Blogs! I read a lot of Blogs!!!Evening Song by Sidney LanierLook off, dear Love, across the sallow sands, And mark yon meeting of the sun and sea; How long they kiss in sight of all the lands, Ah! longer, longer we.Now, in the sea's red vintage melts the sun As Egypt's pearl dissolved in rosy wine And Cleopatra-night drinks all- 'tis done, Love, lay thine hand in mine.Come forth, sweet stars, and comfort heaven's heart, Glimmer, ye waves, 'round else unlighted sands; Oh night! divorce our sun and sky apart- Never our lips, our hands.

Heroes:

Anyone and everyone who does something to make a diffrence.

My Blog

Love

1 Corinthians 13 Love  1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mys...
Posted by Cody on Sat, 27 Oct 2007 01:43:00 PST

Guessing about HIV?

Guessing about HIV may keep disease going By Paige Parker Paige's article ran today on the front page of The Oregonian this morning and I see why she didn't use me. The article has more to do with di...
Posted by Cody on Sat, 13 Oct 2007 10:38:00 PST

Update

I just found out that I will NOT be quoted in tomorrow's story about +alk. I was told in short that they wanted the story to go a certain way and my quotes would take it on a different route...
Posted by Cody on Sat, 13 Oct 2007 04:17:00 PST

YES Im Positive!

I telling you all now because I have agreed to be interviewed by the Oregonian about my status and a program I was a part of called +alk and my name will most likely be printed. So I don't want anyone...
Posted by Cody on Thu, 11 Oct 2007 06:51:00 PST

We The People

The Constitution of the United States of America We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defe...
Posted by Cody on Wed, 26 Sep 2007 11:45:00 PST

I'm in love!

Ok I'm in love there is no getting around it. The more I fight it the more I feel it. I have been in and out of relationships since my divorce trying so hard to find the one thing I didn't have but ...
Posted by Cody on Sun, 24 Jun 2007 05:51:00 PST

Talking out of my ass.

Well yes I am in a relationship now and have been. It has been awhile since I have updated this but what the hell I'm at work and have time to kill. And to be honest a lot has happened in my life sinc...
Posted by Cody on Sun, 27 May 2007 04:29:00 PST