Jai

People often think that I am aloof or even suplado, which is really untrue. It's probably just my facial expression that gives them that kind of impression. Although I seem lively and articulate, I admit that I'm shy and reserved. I often describe myself as an introvert with an extrovert life for I am the type who would drift away and unconsciously stare off into space in the worst moments possible. But if someone would be brave enough to get to know me better, he would realize that I have pretty diverse interests. %D%A%D%AI've had my share of heartaches and it's painfully unbearable. It's like seeing your world collapse in seconds. If only there's a drug that would relieve this kind of pain in minutes, it would surely be part of my shopping list. But they always say that if it doesn't kill you, surely it will only make you stronger. This stage of heart melancholy is a proof of my emotional investment in a relationship. Yet, I don't consider applying the theory of learning from experience when it comes to new relationships. I believe that each person you would be dealing with emotionally must be treated as if it is your first time to love%D%A%D%AOpen communication would surely be one of the reasons why relationships last. I know that it's not easy revealing all secrets to your partner because in one way or another, we still safeguard some things and keep some identity up to ourselves. But once we enter into a relationship, that barrier must slowly be diminished in order to maintain a smooth and strong partnership. It's very vital to know your partner and it would be very helpful if he or she is an open book to you and vice versa. ................