Hey MYSPACE.... So my names Ma.AUBREY but some of you probably know me as AUBREY....Vanessa or Vanz...........U know, I'm a no bullshit person. I tell it like it is. Simple as that. People aren't used to people like me so they see me as complicated. I don't obey just any persons rules, nor will I behave and react in the "norm" to certain situations and so they categorize me as rebellious. I tell the truth and admit to my mistakes and people treat me like I'm a bad person. ------------------------------------------------------------ There is a big difference when a good person does something bad, and a bad person does something good. - ----------------------------------------------------------- Stupidity on the other hand is either : the subconscious unsuccessfully taking over an impromptu scenario : a characteristic born into a person consciously kept out of sight but will be induced by sudden sometimes startling circumstances : the last resort, when one has no other answer, excuse, choice, and couldnt be concerned about losing face because he/she is too caught up in the moment paralyzed with no sense of reality and repercussion to him is an instrument (used to get back sympathy). I think everyone has it in them. It's a "GET OUT OF JAIL for FREE" card. And since we're all too busy being either a lover or a fighter I think we should look at stupidity as COMIC RELIEF and not use it against the person. Anyone should be allowed to get away with stupidity atleast once, twice if your mother didnt teach you any better. After that you should beware to then bring shame to yourself. ------------------------------------------------------------ I define a bad person as someone who has one or more of these symptoms and is aware : someone who repeatedly, consciously, intentionally, does wrong and inflicts pain on another and takes pleasure in ones suffering also a person who feels no remorse and knows no regret. ------------------------------------------------------------ People often forget to look at the true intentions and motive behind a scandal. All they want to hear is dirt. The rumors.Nobody ever wants the truth! The truth is after any bad fight we're all victims. Including the audience. When foul words have been exchanged, accusations are made, and secrets are revealed.. cruelty is unleashed and we allow ourselves to be amidst evil we get caught up in it all until it becomes us. ------------------------------------------------------------ Why expose yourself to this? It weighs down your spirit and tarnishes the soul. ------------------------------------------------------------ I believe that we should always give a person the benefit of doubt, as well as give them every opportunity needed to change and be better people. Don't just leave it to chance, that just lessens the possibility. Unless ofcourse your trying to help the hopeless or maybe a person/people who dont want your help.------------------------------------------------------- ----- You then my friend may go to the nearest sink and wash your hands clean of any traces or signs of guilt. ------------------------------------------------------------ -------***MORE***----------------I LOOK like a b'iatch.. but I rarely am. So on those rare occassions please bare with me because THERE MUST BE A GOOD REASON for it. I TRULY AND GREATLY APPRECIATE people that take the time to get to know another, respect one anothers individuality, people who accept the other inspite and not despite of, those that aren't trying to influence the others with negativity, those who aren't quick to judge.. (dont want to be a hypocrite, that has gotten the best of me once upon a time.. people change) I see that in others, I feel it. I'd rather not be around it. That's me......