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I live by “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” and “do no harm”. I am spiritual, but not religious. I just lost our 23 year old cat. We are down to a three-legged cat, a perfectly healthy black cat and my granddaughters' six toed cats. We were forced by circumstance to give up our dog that fell on his head when he was one week old named Thud, you can now find him on NAWFL website as "Bud" - 'Thud' was too out-there for them, lol. We still have his mom and brother. We have a goose with a deformed beak and a duck - which was hatched in my back yard. I gave up my rescued boa with mouth and shedding issues that eats cornish game hens but she has a good home and gets handled by my son who lives near her. We had a rescued formerly snake feed white rat that must have come from a lab because he died of a stomach tumor that grew to half his size - I just thought he was eating well!!! At least he had a good home until he died. I have raised racoons and squirrels and baby birds, rats, mice, iguanas..... I have three wonderful adult children and four fantastic grandbabies, two more on the way. I am in a committed (as I should be committed) relationship with a USMC caused PTSD patient with neurological problems too. I own a 100+ year old house in a little waterfront Long Island village. I was a paralegal at a prestigious East Hampton law firm for 13 years and now I am a personal assistant to a type A lady and I work close enuf to walk!!!! It is my dream job, a real Gal Friday kind of job, if it needs to be done, I do it. I went to college at 40 and pulled a 4.0 GPA.GODDESS BLESS THE USAMyspace Layouts To Promote Barack Obama At WishAFriend.com

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My Blog

ain't i a nauseating convert???? lol

The paper has a set-in-stone policy limiting letters to 350 words, so 350 of the following 412 words were published in letters to the editor - todays' Suffolk Times:"There is a haven in our midst. It ...
Posted by on Thu, 21 May 2009 17:11:00 GMT

Mothers and Peace

Reverend Addai asked me to write a piece and read it at services today at Southold Unitaran Universalist. Here it is, slightly edited to make sense to the non-UU public:We all have a different idea of...
Posted by on Sun, 10 May 2009 14:46:00 GMT

from a blog on Newsday

I liked my answer and wanted to share as I just realized this myself.  From a blog on Newsday:the other person posted:" I thought that ALL of us elected Obama, not just the black Democrats. But yester...
Posted by on Wed, 21 Jan 2009 18:31:00 GMT

Neighbor and village issues

Written to my criminal ex-mayor almost 3 years ago: You characterize our actions as a vendetta.  To us, it is all part of the puzzle:  if the same family [Gordons] flouts code in Queens and at least t...
Posted by on Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:47:00 GMT

it lingers

Do you remember? Does Jaime? If the Damian in my arms was between 1 & 3, you were 8 - 10 and she was 4 - 7. Do you remember when he ruined my face? I remember screaming that I looked like rat-boy. I w...
Posted by on Sat, 10 Jan 2009 20:25:00 GMT

blind faith

I have never believed in blind faith.  I have always believed that any spiritual leader demanding blind faith simply wants control.  This was read at the unitarian services I attended t...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Nov 2008 20:54:00 GMT

church and life in general

I lit a candle this week and said something to the effect of: "A year ago I thought it was a major tragedy when I lost my job of 13 years. But it turned out to be a blessing because after 6 months of...
Posted by on Thu, 20 Nov 2008 03:22:00 GMT

the beginning of my Geni bio ...

I was born in Mastic Beach, Bayview Hospital, delivered by Frank Calabro, Sr. who later made house calls and sang 'Jeepers Creepers' and "My Little Margie" to me. (As an adult both of his sons, Frank,...
Posted by on Sun, 07 Sep 2008 14:29:00 GMT

An open letter to my office family of thirteen years.

An open letter to my office family of thirteen years. Names have been changed to protect the innocent, and the guilty. All of my life, I have been told to be less of a mouse, to stand up for myself, ...
Posted by on Mon, 31 Mar 2008 07:03:00 GMT

Losses - composed in my head while walking dogs yesterday morning

Losses 27 years, an hour and forty five minutes ago, I found my first-born son dead in his bed. I have been good about it - I don't think of it often. Fortunately, or unfortunately, I have a psyche t...
Posted by on Tue, 25 Dec 2007 09:31:00 GMT