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LARGE FANCIES

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About Me

Oh the sisters of mercy, they are not departed or gone.
They were waiting for me when I thought that I just can't go on.
And they brought me their comfort and later they brought me this song.
Oh I hope you run into them, you who've been travelling so long.
-leonard cohen
often imitated. never duplicated.
-lori earley, "drained".
-herb ritts
man is least himself when he talks in his own person. give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
oscar wilde

i am voracious. i am endlessly inspired. i am highly-sensitive. i have a hard time dealing with overstimulation, but cannot live without it. i prize empathy and connectedness. i throw myself into the causes i believe in. i'm both a hopeless lover and a strong fighter. i do not understand the word "no". i live for beauty. i create out of necessity. i eschew convention. i will never stop. may sleep be the only time my eyes ever close.
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    i'm sarah, oldest child of three. i'm of italian/native-american/french descent. i adore good, red wine, but am also frequently made fun of for ordering "old man" drinks like gin martinis and scotch. no appletinis here. i'm deathly afraid of birds and severe lightning. i am near-fluent in german (six years), and so-so with my french at this point (two years and brushing up). at the moment i'm currently teaching myself russian for fun. i am a complete and total adrenaline junkie (much to my worrisome father's chagrin). i adore animals. they have my heart. my childhood "dream job" was to be a veterinarian. i don't take shit from anyone. i'm little, but i have a big, big mouth. you have been warned. i am the type of person who, no matter what you say, will always give the homeless or those in need money or something helpful, if i can. i can't not. i'd gladly be labeled a sucker rather than not give someone what i do not myself need. i have been more fortunate than many, and will always be grateful to my parents for that. i abhor violence. discrimination or deprivation of rights of any type enrages me. i will gladly put myself in the hot-seat to defend someone, anyone at all. i am the most outgoing, social loner you will ever, ever know. i can't even figure it out, myself. i am happiest when in motion. traveling brings me great contentedness. i was always the smart-kid/class-clown hybrid. i will do anything for a laugh, for the pure story of it. spontaneity is of utmost importance to me. any guise of being unflappable or easily able to brush things off is entirely that--a guise. i am extremely sensitive, and am very, very observant. more often than not, this breaks my heart. luckily, at the same time, it drives me to be better, to want better. i feel most at home near water. always. i give more than i should, but i've found it's always returned ten-fold, with patience and an astute eye. i am extremely opinionated, but very open-minded. in fact, i love hearing the opposite side of a debate, given that it is well-presented. to be able to see both sides of an argument is a priceless quality and skill. i am a firm believer in the power of the human mind, and of mind-over-matter. we are what we think about. i miss making art. from the time when i was a little girl, i was drawing and painting as soon as i could hold the appropriate tools. i feel like structured, elite education has robbed me of this. i'm trying to take it back; i'm striving for the happy medium. speaking of--why the hell doesn't myspace have a section for "favorite artists"? weak. i am always the first to admit my own faults. i am perhaps the most tomboy-ish "girly-girl" you will ever meet. i'd say the former actually overshadows the latter. i write. i have to. i've taken two years off from college, now. i double-major in sociology and religious studies; though i am not particularly "religious" myself, i am fascinated with the point where the two disciplines intersect. i have been a life-long perfectionist. i was looking at law schools my freshman year of high school. i never thought i would be so okay with being so directionless as i now am. i am witty, sarcastic, and at times, cynically hilarious. don't be fooled, however. my optimism is both remarkably hardy and astonishing, all things considered. i am finally at the point where i feel happy; where i feel free. i only hope i can help someone realize the same potential within themselves.
.. i want spontaneity. i want wonder. i want excitement. i want to let it all go and seize it all concurrently; i want to laugh and smile at random things and appreciate. appreciate everything. i want new perspectives. and insights. i want to be selfish and selfless, without losing a beat in between. i want beauty, and understanding, and everything that comes with it. i want to be surprised, i want newness, i want the simple things. give and receive; live, love, and everything in between.
yes, i think that's all.

"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing."
-anais nin
-warhol
-james jean
Early in the novel that Tereza clutched under her arm when she went to visit Tomas, Anna meets Vronsky in curious circumstances: they are at the railway station when someone is run over by a train. At the end of the novel, Anna throws herself under a train. This symmetrical composition the same motif appears at the beginning and at the end may seem quite novelistic to you, and I am willing to agree, but only on condition that you refrain from reading such notions as fictive, fabricated, and untrue to life into the word novelistic. Because human lives are composed in precisely such a fashion. They are composed like music. Guided by his sense of beauty, and individual transforms a fortuitous occurrence (Beethovens music, death under a train) into a motif, which then assumes a permanent place in the composition of the individuals life. Anna could have chosen another way to take her life. But the motif of death and the railway station, unforgettably bound to the birth of love, enticed her in her hour of despair with its dark beauty. Without realizing it, the individual composes his life according to the laws of beauty even in times of greatest distress. It is wrong, then, to chide the novel for being fascinated by mysterious coincidences (like the meeting of Anna, Vronsky, the railway station and death, or the meeting of Beethoven, Tomas, Tereza, and the cognac), but it is right to chide man for being blind to such coincidences in his daily life. For he thereby deprives his life of a dimension of beauty. -kundera, the unbearable lightness of being
-tara mcpherson"the pages are still blank, but there is a miraculous feeling of the words being there, written in invisible ink and clamoring to become visible."
-nabokov
-lichtenstein

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oh, and this please.

ryan franchetti. my best friend; my other half. what is there to say? in my heart and memories always. i could never forget. some days, i still wonder how i'll be able to do it all without you.
1984 - 2006

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i am

so ridiculously lucky.
Posted by on Fri, 26 Sep 2008 00:23:00 GMT

just because.

  haha. thank god for my animals.  
Posted by on Wed, 28 May 2008 17:18:00 GMT

we all

want to go around with our mantra, our well-worn armor, of "no regrets". it's not that it's a lie, really; it's not that we are lying. we believe in it, we believe in wanting it, in wanting to live th...
Posted by on Mon, 12 May 2008 10:23:00 GMT

my sidekick and i explore.

                              I STILL HATE YOU, PHOTOBUCKET.   also, damn--my dog needs a bandana, y/y?
Posted by on Mon, 05 May 2008 18:16:00 GMT

rural maine. late-afternoon burn cruises.

                  all just so much beautiful disrepair.   oh yeah, and photobucket, your image quality fucking sucks.
Posted by on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 15:42:00 GMT

access denied

           
Posted by on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:52:00 GMT

there is no poetry here

i'm just going to go ahead and ... yeah. well, let's see. i'm sorry that this is not going to be pretty to read. i have no great revelations, no neat endings, no seamless, pervasive imagery for you. ...
Posted by on Mon, 21 Jan 2008 19:29:00 GMT

the beginning after the end

so, when 7:30 finally rolled around this morning, i gave up the dream of getting any worthwhile sleep. i went outside and played in a snowstorm instead. i haven't had many words lately. au revoir, 200...
Posted by on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 10:02:00 GMT

"the man in bogota"

the police and emergency service people fail to make a dent.the voice of the pleading spouse does not have the hoped for effect. the woman remains on the ledge--though not, she threatens, for long. i ...
Posted by on Sun, 28 Oct 2007 20:46:00 GMT

dont read this.

i guess i wasn't sure how it was all going to go until i got there. i didn't have much, but what i had with me, i shut, left behind, in a car not my own. it wasn't so much that i would lose it all som...
Posted by on Tue, 23 Oct 2007 03:33:00 GMT