Meme - soon to be Mrs. Bland

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who pushes me in the right direction, brings positivity to my surroundings, and respects what I have going on.View All Friends | View Blog | View Pics | Add Comment

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Survey
One and only easy question...What's your first name?: Melita
If you could change one thing about your childhood what would it be?: I would have liked to get to know my family a lot earlier.
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance, what?: I don't know, I'm starting to look my age though
If you could have had the starring role in a movie already made, which one?: Love Jones
If you could relive one year of your life knowing what you know now,which?: 2004, no question. That's when I graduated from h.s. and made the decision to move to Illinois, changes in that year would affect my entire life
If you could instantly play any instrument perfectly, what would it be?: Piano
If you were to be stranded on an island with one platonic friend only,who?: Eric Gibson
Choose one color that describes you most accurately: Green
If you could be guranteed one thing in life besides money what would it be?: Peace
If you could have one specific power over other people what would it be?: I'd like to be able to read their minds
If you had to spend one year alone in the wilderness where would you go?: I have no idea, somewhere tropical with not a lot of storms and a lot of shade
If you could forever eliminate one specific prejudice from the earth,which?: Racism of course but it'll never happen
If you could own any building in existence,which would you choose?: Trump Towers Chicago
If you could choose any actor alive to play YOU in a film who would it be?: Sanaa Lathan
If you were given one hour to spend any amount of money in a store,which?: Wal Mart haha
If you could work for anyone in the world,who would it be and what job?: I'd work for myself.
If you could play any position on your favorite sports team, what?: I'd be the personal trainer for the Green Bay Packers...does that count? lol
If you could change one thing about your first sexual experience, what?: It wouldn't have happened!
If you could change one of your personality traits what would it be?: Paranoia
If you could have a romance with any fiictional character who would it be?: Ha! Prince Charming?!
If you could commit one crime without being caught, what crime?: Theft
If you were to have sex with 2 people from your own life at once who?: oh WOW...ok I know the 2 names but I'm not tellin!
If you could have a secret hideaway to escape to with a lover, where?: A villa in Puerto Rico
If you could coach any current sports team proffessionally which team?: Green Bay Packers
If you could eliminate one hereditary characteristic from your family what?: Schizophrenia or alcoholism
If you had to married to a person who is famous now who would it be?: Mekhi Phifer
If you had to have sex with someone you know of the same sex,who?: Nobody at all
If you could ensure one personality trait in your children, what?: Intelligence
If you could undo one sexual encounter form your life which would you erase: Hahahahaha! I'm not telling
What is your single worst fear?: Spiders
If you could be a contestant on any game show which one?: Moment of Truth
Describe your idea of the perfect mate:
Describe the perfect kiss: Um. How?
If you could have anyone's eyes in the world whose eyes would you want?: Mine!
If you could eliminate one trait in your mate what would it be?:
If you could eliminate one habit you have what would it be?: Smoking or biting my nails
If you could thank one teacher you had who would it be and why?: David Wolfe, he was my soccer coach and psych teacher and he was great
Choose one thing that gives you comfort: My daughter
If you had to constantly carry a weapon what kind would it be?: 9mm
If you could have only one part of your body massaged everyday which part?: shoulders
If you could free yourself from one burden in your life what would it be?: finances
If you could own one piece of clothing from any film ever made, what?: I don't know
Can you count your total number of sexual partners on one hand?: Umm, lets see...
Describe the moment you were the most jealous: It was awhile ago, not a very good or relevant memory so I'll leave it alone
Loud or Silent?: Loud
Passion or Romance?: Romance
Night or Day?: Night
Open minded or Reserved?: Open Minded
Tell something intimate someone couldnt guess about you: I don't know how intimate it is, but I really don't like to be looked at, it makes me uncomfortable unless the person looking speaks right away, otherwise I feel like I'm being watched.
Are you really happy?: Halfway there

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Music:

A little of everything: Hip Hop, R&B, Jazz, Neo-Soul, Salsa, Reggaeton, Reggae, etc.

Movies:

Love Jones, Shooter, Scarface, Paid in Full, The Bourne movies, Clockers, Death Sentence, Love and Basketball, Paid in Full, Menace to Society, Friday, Set it Off, Stomp the Yard, Best Man, 300, Memoirs of a Geisha, Fried Green Tomatoes...etc.

Television:

I don't watch a lot of TV, I don't really have the time.

Real Plex
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZ2GiUz7qt8

Books:

My favorite authors are Eric Jerome Dickey (Chasing Destiny, The Other Woman, Friends and Lovers), Terry McMillan (The Interruption of Everything, A Day Late and A Dollar Short), Zane (Nervous, The Sisters of APF, Sex Chronicles). A few other favorites are "The Coldest Winter Ever" by Sister Souljah, "Flyy Girl" by Omar Tyree, "Sexual Healing," "Every Thug Needs a Lady."

Heroes:

PHENOMENAL WOMAN
by Maya Angelou
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a model's fashion size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies.
I say
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my steps
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please
And to a man
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees
Then they swarm around me
A hive of honey bees.
I say
It's the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth
The swing of my waist
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say
It's in the arch of my back
The sun of my smile
The ride of my breasts
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say
It's in the click of my heels
The bend of my hair
The palm of my hand
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me