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i bartend in binghamton in the 2 best bars in my mind, i used to love to party hard but no longer am able to due to health problems i had in the past so now im trying to find fun in a balanced lifestyle! im usually very emotional but since my break of 6 months of not drinking i have found a nice balance between my head and my heart allowing me to control my emotions more! I am very very caring and on the contrary i can be very bitchy too.. i love my family and have a huge one. cats are my favorite animals besides monkeys. im a short skinny yet healthy girl with aubrun/brown hair and bright blue eyes. i enjoy partying and love meeting new people.i used to be a very emotional girl who always needs someone by my side but i have also learned to enjoy my alone time i love it! i love to cuddle at night and i love to be shown im there! Once you give your heart up its hard to get it back again!! i also love the hot weather california style i guess i love the beautiful senery, the weather,the beaches, everything and one day i will be back out there i promise atleast that to myself! "if people we love are stolen from us the way to have them along is to never stop loving them, buildings burn, people die , but real love is forever!!" (The crow)! here's a nice letter i stole from someone i think it fits me well! Dear Alcohol,First & foremost, let me tell you that I'm a huge fan of yours. My friend, you always seem to be there when needed. The perfect post-work cocktail, a beer with the game, and you're even around in the holidays hidden inside chocolates as you warm us when we're stuck in the midst of endless family gatherings.However, lately I've been wondering about your intentions. While I want to believe that you have my best interests at heart, I feel that your influence has led to some unwise consequences, briefed below for your review.1. Phone calls: While I agree with you that communication is important, I question the suggestion that any conversation of substance or necessity takes place after 2 a.m. Why would you make me call those ex-boyfriends/girlfriends when I know for a fact they do not what to hear from me during the day, let alone all hours of the night?2. Eating: Now, you know I love a good meal, but why do you suggest that I eat a kabob with chili sauce, along with a big Italian hoagie & some stale chips (washed down with chocolate Nesquik & topped off with a Kit Kat all after a few cheese curls & chili cheese fries)? I'm an eclectic eater, but I think you went too far this time.3. Clumsiness: Unless you're subtly trying to tell me that I need to do more yoga to improve my balance, I see NO need to hammer the issue home by causing me to fall down. It's completely unnecessary, and the black & blue marks that appear on my body mysteriously the next day is beyond me. Similarly, it should never take me more than 45 seconds to get the front door key into the lock.4. Pictures: This can be a blessing in disguise, as it can often clarify the last point below, but the following costumes are banned from ever being placed on my head in public again: Indian wigs, sombreros, bows, ties, boxes, upside-down cups, inflatable balloon animals, traffic cones, or bras. Also, what is with you making me take pictures with people I clearly don't like when I'm sober? Yet they suddenly become my best friends when a flash is presented?5. Beer Goggles: If I think I may know him/her from somewhere, I most likely do not. Please do not request that I go over & see if in fact, I do actually know that person. The phrase "Let's F***" is illegal from now on. While I may be thinking this, please reinstate the brain-to-mouth-block that would stop this thought from becoming a statement, especially in public. Please stop me from talking to the guy/girl with the crooked teeth; acned-up face; bad breath, beer belly, etc. Why are they so appealing to me while I'm with you & why are they so disgusting to me the next morning after you have worn off??6. Furthermore: The hangovers have GOT to stop. This is getting ridiculous. I know a little penance for our previous evening's debauchery may be in order, but the 3pm hangover immobility is completely unacceptable. My entire day is shot. I ask that, if the proper precautions are taken (water, vitamin B, bread products, aspirin) prior to going to bed/passing out facedown on the kitchen floor with a bag of popcorn, the hangover should be minimal & in no way interfere with my daily Saturday or Sunday (or any day for that matter) activities.Alcohol, I have enjoyed our friendship for some years now & would like to ensure that we remain on good terms. You've been the invoker of great stories, the provocation for much laughter, and the needed companion when I just don't know what to do with the extra money in my pockets. In order to continue this friendship, I ask that you carefully review my grievances above & address them immediately. I will look for an answer no later than Thursday 3pm (pre-happy hour) on your possible solutions & hopefully we can continue this fruitful partnership. Thank you, from your biggest fan.
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I'd like to meet:

someone who will care about me forever and appreciate me for who i am and show it, someone who when they say i love you they actually mean it,and wont make me cry due to selfishness,someone who wont just take the next best thing instead of working on things,someone who instead of always looking at the bad looks at the good and remembers the memories, because thats how i am and what i need and that is who i would like to meet!!!!

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i want happiness

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Posted by on Fri, 31 Oct 2008 02:40:00 GMT

heres and insight on me

the creativness in me is flowing again so free. it's like a passion that was burried so deep in the ground and now it's found. it's just the beginning, i hope it stays this time, for i lost it, i foun...
Posted by on Wed, 14 Nov 2007 23:54:00 GMT

All i Want For Christmas

So my mom wanted me to make a list of things i needed, to give her ideas of what to get me for christmas.  As it is i hate the idea of my mom going out of her way buying my huge family and their ...
Posted by on Wed, 14 Nov 2007 23:37:00 GMT

dont just check out this video hear it listen to the words and take a stand everyone, damn it!

this is a time in our lives where so many different things, horrible things are happening all around us! things in other countries and things so very close to each and every one of us, we as a free wi...
Posted by on Wed, 14 Nov 2007 14:24:00 GMT